Diamyn Hall | The One Day Contract Mentality [O.D.C.M.] (Pt 2) | The Problems & Possibilities
Diamyn Hall
Orioles Upper Level Mental Performance Coach | Servant Leader | Systems Thinker |
?? Welcome Back To The Winners Formula.
?? Unlocking The Winner Within, at 5:55am.
LAST TIME you & I were here, we discussed a few things:
TODAY we're going to do a deep dive into:
?? THE PAINFUL PROBLEMS that most people face when it comes to:
?? THE POSITIVE POSSIBILITIES that you have the potential to experience in the near future when it comes to:
?? THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS ARTICLE IS BY READING EVERY SINGLE LINE NO MATTER HOW UNCOMFORTABLE IT MAY GET
?? THE PAINFUL PROBLEMS THAT MOST PEOPLE FACE
What are the problems that most people face when it comes to how they show up at work every day?
RESULTS & TIME INTENTIONALITY PROBLEMS - ??
?? Problem 1 - You lack perspective & you take work for granted. Your lack of perspective leads to taking the work you do for granted. This causes you to be oblivious to the fact that there are literally countless individuals who would eagerly do ANYTHING to be in your position & seize the opportunities you have. This also causes you to be oblivious to the fact that “work” is the only avenue that allows you to leave your footprint on the earth.
?? Problem 2 - You lack productivity & fail to prioritize effectively. You think being busy is being productive. This causes you to display a lack of focus, leading to mistakes & inefficiency.
?? Problem 3 - You lack time intentionality & your process for everything you do is sloppy. You fail to use your time to your utmost advantage. This comes from having no clear processes or piss poor processes that lack organization & strategic thinking. This ultimately leads to sloppy execution & sloppy results.
?? Problem 4 - You lack the skill of being resourceful. Therefore you have a habit of making excuses, blaming external factors, and failing to take extreme ownership. You find reasons & justifications when you make mistakes. You point fingers onto colleagues or external factors for personal shortcomings instead of taking ownership.
?? Problem 5 - You suffer from being rigid, unadaptable, and inflexible. When unexpected situations arise, you allow them to "throw you off". You allow them to throw you off so much that you give away your strength and power causing you to feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or even angry.
?? Problem 6 - You lack the courage to step outside of your comfort zone. You let your brain tell to avoid doing things that make you uncomfortable, not recognizing that true growth happens outside of your comfort zone.
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?? Problem 7 - You half ass your work & procrastinate when you “don’t feel like it”. You allow your brain to make excuses. As a result, you delay tasks until the last possible moment. In turn, your work lacks thoroughness and full commitment. Leaving you to complete tasks with minimal effort or attention to detail.
?? Problem 8 - You count down the days instead of making the days count. You say you want to be one of the best at what you do, yet you can't wait to go home and get away from work. Meaning, on a daily basis you count down the minutes until the end of the day. As a result you fail to maximize every moment. Truth is, you're probably already doing it with the holiday break coming up. Aren't you? You're counting down the days until the holidays, instead of making each day count. It's fascinating, the other day I heard somebody say "Christmas is around the corner, therefore I'm already checked out"...This is the opposite of what I want for you (if you're reading this right now).
***Are you keeping count? Continue taking note of the ones that resonate with you. I promise I'll give you the powerful principles & practical keys to each of them ??.
RADIANCE & RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS - ??
?? Problem 9 - You possess a negative & pessimistic attitude that rubs off on other people. You often express negativity & pessimism which rubs off on the people you are in close proximity with. Or worse, it causes people to avoid you.
?? Problem 10 - You hear what people say but you still fail to listen. You listen to respond instead of listening to understand. You possess the ability to hear people's words, yet you consistently fall short in truly listening and comprehending the underlying messages or nuances conveyed in what they are saying (thoughts, feelings, needs)
?? Problem 11 - You fail to add value to others. You have an internal resistance or neglect in contributing to others in a positive way. In fact, you hoard knowledge & wisdom instead of pro-actively sharing it openly with those you know could use it.
?? Problem 12 - Your influence & leadership skills are deficient. You show a lack of effective guidance, vision, & capacity to inspire and lead others toward common goals. This negatively impacts your ability to lead and make the significant impact you really want.
?? Problem 13 - You possess poor communication skills. Your communication skills are lacking & you display an inability to convey your thoughts, ideas, or information effectively, hindering smooth and clear interactions with others.
?? Problem 14 - You fail to express gratitude & appreciation for other people who matter. Your reluctance to express gratitude and appreciation towards others leaves a noticeable void, impacting the sense of acknowledgement with those you lead.
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?? Problem 15 - You have an unhealthy relationship with pressure therefore you perceive pressure as a problem. You categorize pressure as an issue rather than an opportunity for growth and expansion. This limits your radiance and causes you to miss the opportunity to leverage challenges as a means for growth and success.
?? Problem 16 - You are socially disengaged, lack initiative & move with a sluggish pace. You isolate yourself & avoid interaction with other people. You wait to be told what to do instead of taking initiative or seeking opportunities. You move slowly through tasks, lacking a sense of urgency or efficiency.
?? THE POSITIVE POSSIBILITIES THAT EXIST IN YOUR FUTURE
Now that you understand the painful problems that most people (including you) currently face, let’s look at the positive possibilities that you have the potential to experience in your near future…
First things first - The most positive possibility that exist is that you simply decide to adopt The One Day Contract Mentality (if you haven't already). Plain and simple. You show up every day at an olympic level. Not only are you capable of producing extraordinary results that last, but you also build meaningful relationships that are centered around purpose, passion, and peace.
In fact, you do these two things SO consistently that they compound over time.
You take no minutes, hours, or days for granted. Instead, you find a way to maximize every minute, every hour, & every day. Therefore, you show up as the best version of yourself minute after minute, hour after hour, & day after day.
RESULTS & TIME INTENTIONALITY POSSIBILITIES - ??
?? Positive Possibility 1 - You have perspective & are grateful for the opportunity to "get to" do the work you do. You have an optimistic and grateful perspective. You recognize that there are tons of individuals who would kill to be in your position right now. You understand that your work as a means to make a meaningful & positive impact on the world.
?? Positive Possibility 2 - You are productive & prioritize effectively. You efficiently prioritize projects & tasks. You focus on productivity rather than mere busyness. Your attention to detail and focus is what allows you to minimize mistakes, ensuring above average outcomes in everything that you are involved in.
?? Positive Possibility 3 - You are hyper intentional with your time & have a process for everything you do. You utilize time with hyper intentionality, implementing strategic & well thought out processes. Your perspective on time and your ability to leverage time efficiently & effectively leads to precise execution and consistent results.
?? Positive Possibility 4 - You are incredibly resourceful. Therefore you make ZERO excuses. In fact, you take extreme ownership for everything you experience. You are as resourceful as they come! While other people try to "think outside of the box", you find find ways to think like "there is no box". This results in you being able to pull off things that 90% of others couldn't even fathom. On top of that, you take extreme ownership without making excuses or blaming external factors.
?? Positive Possibility 5 - You are incredibly adaptable and flexible no matter what comes up. You exhibit adaptability and resilience in handling unexpected situations. You maintain high composure during times of chaos because you understand that unexpected organic challenges are the only ways for you to exercise your skill of adaptability (arguably the most valuable skill a human can possess).
?? Positive Possibility 6 - You find opportunities to step outside of your comfort zone daily because you realize it is the only key to growth & expansion. You courageously step outside your comfort zone, recognizing that genuine growth occurs beyond familiarity and routine (unlike most). You do this so often that you live outside of your comfort zone daily forcing you to become comfortable with uncomfortability.
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?? Positive Possibility 7 - You give 100% of what you have to everything you do… even when you “don’t feel like it”. Procrastination is not even in your vocabulary. Everything you engage in, you approach with full dedication and commitment. This ensures thoroughness, attention to detail, and building strong workmanship habits. Instead of procrastinating on things like 99% of the population, you join the top 1% and decide to leverage "Parkinsons Law" to your strategic advantage (if you don't know what "Parkinson's Law" is, then google it right now).
?? Positive Possibility 8 - You make the most of every single moment. While other people count down the days, you make the days count. While other people count the days until the holiday break, you make every day leading up to the holiday break count. You value and maximize every moment. While other people engage in "dead time", you do the opposite and engage in "Alive Time".
***I will touch more on each in the next article where I'll share with you the Powerful Principles that connect to each of these!
RADIANCE & RELATIONSHIPS POSSIBILITIES - ??
?? Positive Possibility 9 - You possess an optimistic & positive attitude that rubs off on other people. You radiate positivity and optimism every day. This results in you uplifting those around you with your enthusiasm, passion, and outlook. It doesn't matter what life throws at you, you still find a way to find the "good" in everything.
?? Positive Possibility 10 - You are a master at listening to what other people are trying to communicate. Unlike most people, you empathetically listen and comprehend others' perspectives, fostering deeper understanding and connection through genuine engagement. You actively find ways to practice your listening skills on a daily basis.
?? Positive Possibility 11 - You find ways to add strategic value to those who you come in contact with. You leave everything and everyone better than you found them. While everyone else hoards knowledge out of places of deep insecurity, you willingly share knowledge and wisdom, contributing positively to others' growth and development (no matter who they are).
?? Positive Possibility 12 - Your leadership skills and ability to influence others in a positive way is mind boggling. You exhibit positive leadership skills, inspiring, and guiding others towards shared goals with vision and guidance. You understand that leadership = influence. Nothing more, nothing less.
?? Positive Possibility 13 - Your communication skills are above average and it’s clear to see. You communicate effectively, ensuring clear and smooth interactions with others through articulating your thoughts and ideas with clarity and confidence. Other people say you're a "natural communicator" not realizing you intentionally work on this skill every day.
?? Positive Possibility 14 - Instead of feeling grateful and selfishly holding it in, you find micro moments to express your gratitude to others throughout the course of each day. You express gratitude and appreciation openly, fostering a sense of acknowledgment and value in your relationships. You understand that expressing you gratitude can change the trajectory of someones day, week, month, or year when shared with geniality. You enjoy the feeling of making people feel good vs most of the population who enjoy making others feel less than. You enjoy pushing people's green buttons ? instead of their red buttons ??.
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?? Positive Possibility 15 - You understand with your mind, heart, body, and soul that PRESSURE IS A PRIVILEGE. Instead of viewing pressure as a problem, you view pressure as an opportunity for growth. You leverage challenges, pressure, and stress as opportunities for growth & expansion. You understand this so deeply that you proactively seek opportunities to step out of your comfort zone every day.
?? Positive Possibility 16 - You are socially agile, take initiative, and go out of your way to confidently connect with other people. You take initiative, you're socially engaging, and move efficiently with a sense of urgency, purpose, & joy, contributing actively to other people during opportunities of collaboration.
Now that you have an in depth understanding of the problems and possibilities,
?? NEXT WEEK - We'll dive into the next digestible piece of the one day contract mentality...THE PERSPECTIVE SHIFTING PRINCIPLES!
?? REFLECT - Take a moment to reflect on the insights shared in this article...
?? COMMENT - Which problems and possibilities resonated with you most?
Until next time,
- Coach Diamyn ??
Mental Performance Coach
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