Developing Proper Post-Career Views of Life

Developing Proper Post-Career Views of Life

This article originally appeared at Rethinking65.

Where do Your Clients’ Views of Retirement Come From?

Advisors need to ask about a client’s experiences, both personal and professional, to understand their vision of post-career life. However, clients need to also ask this of themselves.

Neighborhood gatherings, both planned and spontaneous, are common in my 55-plus community. Residents bring lawn chairs along with their beverages of choice and snacks and set up in someone’s driveway to enjoy a little fellowship.

My wife and I recently grabbed our stuff and joined one of these get-togethers. It was eye-opening. Of those assembled, we were the only ones closer to 55 than 75. We still work. We’re soon to be grandparents, but many others had multiple grandchildren, some in their teenage years. The conversations ranged from local to global.

The Smiths are selling their place in Building 7. The new people are not picking up after their dog. High inflation is producing murderous grocery bills. The homeowners’ association’s plan to fix the erosion behind Building 13 is behind schedule. The war in Ukraine. Current personal medical issues and challenges. The cost of healthcare. The death of a relative.

Please, don’t get me wrong. I have great neighbors and really enjoy where I live. But everyone is retired, so no one asks, “What do you do for a living?” or “How’s the business coming?” Work is not a part of their living equation. My wife and I realized we needed to adapt to our audience better and be ready to engage in meaningful conversations that relate to their station in life.

Check out the rest of the article where we cover the following:

  • The Same Can Be Said About You
  • All in the Family
  • Media Representations
  • Through the Eyes of Others
  • The Importance of Career
  • Fitness Anxieties

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David Buck is the author of the book The Time-Optimized Life, owner of Kairos Management Solutions, LLC, and founder of the Infinity Lifestyle Design program. David helps individuals, teams and businesses “in-career” create more time flexibility in their lives. In addition, assists individuals and couples craft a “post-career” lifestyle strategy of meaning and purpose. To learn more, contact him at [email protected] or visit Infinity Lifestyle Design.

Rebecca Ford, MBA

Guiding Corporate Professionals to Rise Beyond the Title | RETIRE + Rise? | Reinventing Identity, Purpose & Impact After the Career Chapter Closes

5 个月

Such a powerful reminder of how deeply family history shapes our approach to retirement planning! I’ve seen firsthand how witnessing my dad's retirement can influence our own expectations and decisions. It’s crucial to understand these generational patterns to help clients consciously choose a path that supports their values so that they create a retirement that not only secures their future but also leaves a legacy of mindful choices for the next generation.

Robin Ayme

Life Athlete. I write to think. I share to grow.

5 个月

Retirement isn't just a financial milestone; it's a chance to redefine purpose. I learned that firsthand after my sports career. Let's embrace the journey ahead!

Invest time developing views so that you don't have to worry as much about life in retirement.

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