Deterrence in Life!
Dr. Kamran Ahmed Siddiqui
Resident Director Comaea Int. | CTD KTD | Free Lance Trainer & Executive Coach | Lean Six Sigma Black Belt | Author of Inspirational Books
You might have seen the river water making its way into the ocean? If I ask you if there exists a single river in the world that flows strainght into the ocean unhampered,you will surly answer in negative as river path always be oblique.
To divulge about life clandestine,when we pursue our journey,we will surly come across many similar interminable deterrents on the way.We should then always remember like a river,we only need to change our direction , not our destination.
This change of direction comes when we need to make a decision regarding the effulgent events that happened in our lives.We have the option of either saying “yes” or “no”.Sometimes , we come to realize that our “no” is actually “yes” to rhapsodize success and happiness.
If you study the history of all successful people , you will find a consistent pattern irrespective of their race, color, origon.They all have the ability to evaluate when it is essential to say “No” . We mainly choose based on our sub concious ingrained beliefs and values.If your hard core value is is to always speak the truth ,then whenever you are in a situation to decide whether to tell the truth or lie,you will definetly choose the former.
Our existing state of eloquent life is simply the sheer outcome of the different erudite choices we made. If you are punctilious to making your dreams a reality e.g become a manager,own a business,score excellent marks in exams,then you must say “NO” to parties,social activities, television shows,weekend movies and other time consuming activities in order to remain focused on your objective. At the same time,you have to say congenial “Yes”to good dietry habits,learning new skills and creative networking which will raise your mental awareness and nourish your thought patterns.
Remember this limpid statement that “while you are free to make your choices,you are not free to choose the consequences of your choices.”
So , be courageous in saying venerate “No” along with me to all the non productive and distracting activities which have hindered you so far from doing your best.
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