Detaching From & Dealing With Emotionally Immature People
Emotional Immaturity
Is as catastrophic as to those dealing with such pathological evil creatures as when dealing with,
psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists and as other drastic disturbances that fills evil beings.
Emotional Immature people will make you doubt and question
Your sanity via gas lightning, worthiness, goodness, no matter all the goodness you are doing, how great you are or anything else about you, they seem with only one mission; ruining you, the more ruin, harm and distress they cause it gives them some satisfaction and esteem; they enjoy others suffering, pain and damaging them.
According to Tracy S. Hutchinson, Ph.D.
'' the ability to deal with reality (Gibson, 2015). Emotionally mature people are self-reflective, take responsibility for their actions, and have flexible and adaptable personality traits that help them navigate the world with minimal detrimental consequences. ''
they lack empathy, self reflection and inner connection to acknowledge the harm they inflict upon their victims. It does not matter what is important to you and plans for future, they have an agenda that you ought to fulfill.
Their world view and perception of matters and issues is very narrow and flawed.
They get in acquaintance with others not for genuine interest in them as human beings because human being are by nature social beings ’Those who refrain from such state must have been severely harmed and are protecting themselves’, but instead to use them for their hidden agendas. Dr. Gibson states that their relationships is superficial and lack depth. What matters is the fake reality they fabricated and their pursuit to impose it by all evil means and tactics.
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Dealing with such personalities is toxic, psychologically/emotionally/ mentally draining and causes severe impacts on their victims, they are so manipulative that they will make you feel that everything that is wrong within such relationship is your fault, and you are imaging things if you confront them with their wrongdoings against you.
For them it is you who must change, but their evilness is all from your imaging just who they are and they are normal, and whatever wrong and harm they did you are the one that is not normal and must seek psychiatrist assistance. It is more of Dr. Thomas Szasz and Peter Roger Breggin of victims of domestic violence being drugged to live with those whom assault them.
To not end as being the ruin they want, have minimal contact with them, for their aims of a relationship with you is wrecking you havoc.
An article written by WebMD Editorial Contributors suggest the following to deal with emotionally immature people:
Communicate. Talking honestly but sensitively about their behavior is one way to start. You can point out how their words or actions made you feel and ask them to be more sensitive in the future. You may need to repeat that conversation more than once. It takes time to learn new emotional patterns.
Be positive. When the person behaves in ways that seem mature and genuine, praise them for it. Positive reinforcement is a strong tool for encouraging growth. Parents often do this to encourage certain behaviors in young children. Adults will respond positively to praise as well.
Adjust. You can also try to adjust your own expectations, within reason, of course. Not everyone will change, but you can change how you respond to people. You can learn their patterns and find ways to work around the problem behaviors.
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