Demystifying Success!!
"I have seen kings unhappy & many shoemakers living happily"--Said by Shakespeare's.
24th of july'18 decided to drop-out engineering after completing my third year & one of the biggest risk which i never regret because what i have learnt from that time ,it was something which makes me grow in very short time & lot to go ahead.
That time was one of the hard time for me to work alone for what i love & believe me "No One" will be there to support you.
Just follow some rules that i have implemented practically when i started from No-Where:
1.)Believe yourself(if you don't then no one will do).
2.)Stop comparing yourself from others,it's your life(go ahead & do what you love)
3.)Make your tomorrow plan(if you don't then for sure there is nothing to do & you will be wasting your one more day in life)
And sadly i have given importance to money as compare to people in my life since then just because when people go it hurts & they will leave for "No Reason" & you will be having "No Feelings"after having everything in your life.
Someday before i met with a guy,selling pani-puri & he is listening to songs & enjoying ,he answered very gently ,"Sir,khush hu aur kya chahiye bhagwan ki dua se 2 waqt ki roti mil jaati hai" then i questioned me, is i am happy & to be true i don't have answer for myself after having everything except the reason why i am here is ,just some people who get motivated from me & their text to ask "Hey Vivek,is everything fine with you".
But to share with you,since 1st july'20 to 18th july'20 i am out of stage where i lost most important people in my life just because i give more importance to money & i didn't realize that but when they left that feeling was "I am one of the poor guy on this planet where i don't have anyone to share anything what i feel,how i feel &everything looks like waste & it's feels like there is "No Motive" to live now.Those 18 days give me an unimaginable experience where i lost my dog as well & i can't cry as well,not taking anyone call & just feels like i should go somewhere far away or die.
But unfortunately as always one of the speaker make me understand all this happens because i don't give importance to people & when i realized some people will leave & make me realized what is important in life,which is first happiness then money.But again i have only single motive to live now to help those ,who are in of need to move ahead in their life but remember guys give importance to people around you,call them up ,ask them how are you & talk with them otherwise you will be at some stage where i am today,all alone only with money.
Now ,will work for people & help them out to live happily.
Believe me earn money but sufficient to your needs & enjoy with your loved ones ,if you focus all on money then believe me you will reach the ladder to buy everything but no one to enjoy & this is not happiness that you want to go through.
For people earning money is everything but truth is something beyond that,money can buy you anything except people around you with happiness.
Believe me when you climb for success to earn money to buy one of the expensive car or house ,you wan't find even single person to sit beside you to enjoy.
Success & Failure are the two events of your life,whatever happen if you have people around you ,at the end you will be one of the happiest person in this planet.
If you are someone looking to earn money ,money & money ,maybe you can enjoy everything but without happiness.
It's my personal experience there is a time even me give more importance to money because money can buy you everything but i failed to balance the life with money & people around me.
Now ,i have everything around me but not even a single person to share what i feel & cry that i am one of the alone individual here,surrounded by money & obviously even now,again to help other,earn money but from what i earn to help others what i have is,my motive to help others in any possible way i can.
Take your phone,call people & talk with them,you don't even know what they are going through but they will be in more relief,if you do so.
Sad but today all alone to work for something & to help others,be focus on happiness with your needs is one of the best thing you can do that i failed with.
Remember “people will talk to you when they want NOT when you want”.
But it's fine to miss some one & live with those memories but it's wrong to stop your life to live instead make your goal,work with motive because some people make you learned a lot ,this is the time to give it back to the community & live with the moments you spent with someone.
Keep aside your ego,go & talk to people,some individual will never share what they are going through but you one call can make them feel happy .
I am sorry,not to take some of your calls if you do so.This is what i can share with you in short summary else here are lot to explain but can't ,maybe we can't forget some moments but we can live with them to work hard & make others happy.
I know how to show people a fake smile by saying "Yes,man :i am all good & life is going great by helping others but your inner soul knows everything".
Forgive me & now if you need any help from my side regarding anything i am always there to help you out in any manner i can.
Thank for reading.
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4 年Great post sir??
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4 年vivek chaudhary thank yo ufor your post ! It was quite motivational .