Demystifying Perceived Limits, Realize Your Strengths, and Grow Into Your Fullest Potential.

Hello and welcome to my next article in the Unfakeably Influence The World weekly newsletter. I trust my previous article Demystifying and Overcoming Perceived Feelings of Deep Hurt was valuable in your ongoing journey to self-actualisation, building authentic relationships, and growing to your fullest potential.

You know you want to take your mindset, personal growth, relationship, career, business, wealth and life skills to the next level...For whatever reason, you remain frustrated, stuck, and unmotivated to do what it takes to accomplish what you are capable of.

Taking your life to the next level by breaking through perceived limits, giving power to your strength, and learning to maximise the results you seek requires discipline, values-driven habits, and a plan that you create.

Have you ever wondered why some people get a lot more done than others? It is not because they are lucky; they have a different mindset. They know that by maximising their human potential in life...they'll have more leverage in their career, business, relationship and their net worth in the long run.

No matter where in the world I am speaking, whom I am coaching, training, or consulting, I consistently observe how most people are operating below their fullest potential because they're not using their mind's extraordinary capabilities. They live in a world of excuses, buts, judgements and limits.

If you believe you can fly and have the will to try, you can do almost anything. For example, if I told you that your brain has more neurons than there are stars in the Milky Way galaxy, could you imagine what is possible for this fantastic tool of yours? Can you imagine how powerful it is? When you begin to understand your full capability, you realise there are no limits. Learning to break through what I call 'perceived limits,' self-limiting beliefs that you hold onto because they're comfortable or even familiar, is wise to make.

Most people are operating below their fullest potential because they're not using their full capabilities. It's like driving a car with only one foot on the gas pedal - when both feet are pressing down on that accelerator, we maximise our results.

With understanding and awareness of our weaknesses and strengths, we can take back control. Using neuroplasticity - the ability of the brain to change at any age - we can overcome fear and become aware of how to turn perceptions into the desired reality.

How we see ourselves sometimes limits our growth and development. As one of my favourite authors, Oscar Wilde, says: “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”

But how does one go about being themselves?

It is this question that put me on a lifelong journey of learning and unlearning, as well as writing books and creating courses and Vital Planning Business and Life Mastery Training so more of you can learn new and more empowering methods, tools, and principles that can help you break through the imposed limits and as I say in The Unfakeable Code? book – to live freely on your terms.

The answer lies in transforming your perception of yourself. How you see yourself affects how you act and perceive your reality, actions...and vice-versa.

To put it simply, self-perception dictates the choices made in life. If we believe we are weak, we will create soft decisions to support that belief. Conversely, if we think ourselves to be strong and capable, people will make vital decisions to support this belief. It’s important to note that our self-perception influences our actions more than the reality of a situation (or person) itself.

Our self-perception can influence our actions, but the truth is that we all can change and grow. I have witnessed that in myself and the clients I serve. All the teachers and educators who inspired me to be on the ongoing self-discovery journey I am on today and use the lessons learned to assist as many people as I can overcome their limits, fears, doubts, low self-worth, and other personal or business challenges so they can Unfakeably Influence the World.

Lack of self-confidence is a big part of many people’s limitations, but these limits are often self-imposed. We can change our mindsets, behaviours and beliefs. We can also find people around us who will foster the growth we need to become the best versions of ourselves.

If you're afraid to ask your boss for a promotion or if you think you're not good enough to apply for that job, perhaps it's not because you can’t achieve those things—it's just that you haven't been equipped with the proper tools to do so yet. And if someone is giving you negative feedback about your abilities and skills, then maybe it's not because they're right—perhaps it’s because they don't know how far your potential goes!

Here are some steps you can take:

• Become aware of any limiting beliefs currently holding you back.
• Let go of limiting self-beliefs to grow to your fullest potential. And let go of those beliefs as quickly as you can.
• Your strengths may lie in areas you haven't considered!
• Create empowering beliefs and habits that can support you on your transformational journey.
• Hire a qualified coach, an expert in their industry you can trust and can take you through the process needed to create lasting transformation.

You may be surprised to learn that you can continually improve yourself and your skillset. Learning new things is one of the most important ways to stay relevant and valuable. It may seem like your skillset is fixed, but as long as you are alive, you are developing, growing, and getting smarter every day! Learning new things is good for you in many ways. First of all, it makes you more attractive! Think of how much more fun it would be to talk with someone who could relate a story about their experience doing something new than someone who has the same old stories they tell every time they go out? Here at TJS Cognition Ltd, we think education is never over. My client base has an average age of 45 years old which shows that they continue to learn and grow even after achieving their highest educational or professional goals. Talk to me if you want to keep learning!

It's essential to look within and view your abilities with a more open mind.

Often, our beliefs about ourselves arise from how we see ourselves and the world. We all have fears and, at times, negative thoughts about what we can or cannot do.

We each carry a set of self-perceptions – our perception of our abilities, limits and potential.

These are based on our learning over time and feedback from others. For example, gender roles, stereotypes (e.g., “He’s an amazing artist!”)

“It’s not safe to walk home along the river at night.”

So I trust that what I have shared will assist you in diving in further and learning How To Build A Strong Foundation To Maximize Your Human Potential and Win In Life!

Be Uncommon, if you can...

Why?

Because you are an authentic individual with a unique set of values, vision, and mission in life, you can transform your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, relational, social, business/career financial life by following your heart's desires.??

You've just read about Demystifying Perceived Limits, Realize Your Strengths, and Grow Into Your Fullest Potential. Now it's time to take the next step and get started knowing the deepest parts of you that control your choices, create perceived limits, experience repeated patterns of unwanted behaviours, fuel your failures and stop you from authentically influencing the world.

It’s time to expand your awareness of what’s possible beyond your perceived boundaries, grow your emotional intelligence, become an authentic individual, partner, friend, and leader and transform your entire life, including your business. There's no reason you can’t change your limits into lessons and actions that stimulate growth, love, and fulfilment. I love sharing how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming more confident, sure, credible and capable of purposefully transforming in every area of your personal, professional and business life.

Get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the deep-rooted mental and emotional issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the breakthroughs, the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to grow you, your relationship, your business and your employees. You'll learn practical ways and skills to help you turn your limits into breakthroughs and identify what incremental changes you can make to be where you truly want to be.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi - Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code?.

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