Dementia
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There are a few things that I thought were scary. Death, separation, losing my job etc. But that changed about 5 years ago when I got one of the most devastating news of my life. That news was delivered to me in the psychiatry ward of the hospital in the City Hospital, where the doctor told me that my mother was diagnosed with Dementia or what is known now as Major Neurocognitive disorder. The psychiatrist told me and my father that she is “slipping by the day” and honestly, as much as we knew this, it was one of the toughest things I have heard. From that day onwards, I made it almost my mission to educate myself about the disorder and be a part of as many support groups as possible. My mother passed away a year ago but the education and awareness shouldn’t stop, right?
Dementia is a gradual deterioration of brain functioning that has serious effects on an individual’s memory, language, judgement, reasoning etc. It doesn’t just affect the cognitive abilities of the individual but also the emotions, social behaviour of the person, motivation and even their physical functioning. It is a syndrome that lasts life-long and can result in other brain anomalies like Alzheimer’s disease, brain strokes etc. It usually occurs in the older population but can also take the form of what is known as “early-onset”, i.e onset in the earlier stages of life.
Dementia affects everyone very differently. My mother started showing symptoms of dementia about a year and a half before her diagnosis. She started forgetting things, not just minor forgetfulness but severely forgetting things. It got worse with time but it started with forgetting to take her medication, then forgetting to eat meals or forgetting that she has had meals, forgetting the way to her own home and then at some later stages, even forgetting names of her close family members, even her own daughter. These symptoms are in stages.
Some common symptoms may include memory loss, inability to communicate, confusion, disorientation, losing visual and spatial abilities, problems with reasoning, problem-solving, planning and organizing, affected motor skills. It also affects the individuals psychological capacities. It may cause increased aggression, anxiety, paranoia, depression, etc. individuals with dementia may suffer from memory loss of recent activities, they may find it difficult to complete routine tasks. They may have problems with abstract thinking and feel disoriented. The families of the individuals may observe personality and mood changes in the individual. Dementia is caused by damage to brain cells which inhibits the brain cells to communicate with each other. This affects communication, thinking, behaviour and feelings. Different types of dementia are associated with particular cell damage in certain specific areas of the brain. Hippocampus, the area of the brain associated with learning and memory in the brain, is often the first to be damaged. Thus, the earliest symptoms of Alzheimer’s are memory loss. Family history of dementia puts the further generation at risk of developing symptoms later in life. Some other risk factors associated with dementia include heavy usage of alcohol, drugs, smoking, lack of exercise and unhealthy diet, vitamin B-12 deficiency.
Some types of dementia are:
Treatment of dementia depends upon the stage of the disorder. It is possible to mellow down the symptoms but the condition cannot be cured. Palliative care is advised for individuals who are in the later stages of the disorder when they are completely dependent on others. Palliative care may include assistance to the individual with daily living, medication which can help to improve cognitive functioning, mood, behaviour and counseling. Dementia can lead to increased anger, fear, anxiety, disorientation. Hence emotional support from families, professionals is also helpful. Unfortunately, the gradual deterioration of the condition of the individual may be difficult for the families to manage. The physical, financial and emotional effects of dementia on the families of the individuals are tremendous. What could also help is an early diagnosis so as to optimal management of the disorder and treating any psychological or cognitive symptoms.
There’s no fixed way to prevent dementia. A generally healthy lifestyle may be beneficial according to research. Mentally stimulating activities like puzzles, word plays, mathematics, logical reasoning may be effective in delaying the onset of dementia and reduce its effects. Reducing substance intake is also advised. Staying physically active and socially involved, maintaining a healthy diet, getting quality sleep is also helpful. Treating cardiovascular diseases, high blood pressure, diabetes is also effective.
Dementia has a significant impact on the families and caregivers of the individual. It can be an extremely stressful journey that is often accompanied by emotional turmoil along-with financial and social burdens. The person may behave completely differently, forget most of everything, get agitated and even stubborn. The families need to prepare themselves for what seems like a very stressful journey ahead. If the individual has been diagnosed in the early stages, the family members can support their loved ones by encouraging independence, assisting them in certain cognitive domains and even at times stop them from doing certain activities. Families may also want to map out their finances as care for dementia can get expensive. In terms of taking care of the individual, giving them a variety of tasks involving sensory stimulation like dancing, listening to music, painting, gardening can keep them engaged and stimulated. Outdoor activities with them can be very helpful too. Try to keep a routine and structure throughout the day. Planning meal-times, medications, rest times can help the individual with orientation. Try to involve the individual in several activities. They may resist or be unable to perform them but encouraging them to do those activities may help to stimulate them mentally. Try to seek counselling for yourselves too. Accepting the changes in the loved one who’s condition may gradually deteriorate can be quite difficult. Hence, seeking help can be very helpful.
Conclusion
I remember when my mother forgot who I was, I remember her getting extremely angry at times for very minute things, she would forget that she had had food and when I would tell her that she had had it, she would doubt us. She would say that we were lying and would want food. I remember it being too hard at times to even look at her condition during her final stage of life. It was very difficult. But I remember having some beautiful memories too. Like painting with her, making her favourite food and eating it with her on the family table, playing cards with her. Cherish them, love them after all they say that old age is like a second childhood. Just that this child can be a little too stubborn at times!
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This article on 'Dementia' has been contributed by Smruti Pusalkar, who is a graduate Psychology student from Fergusson College. She is part of the Global Internship Research Program (GIRP), which is under the leadership and guidance of Anil Thomas. GIRP is an Umang Foundation Trust initiative to encourage young adults across our globe to showcase their research skills in psychology and to present it in creative content expression.
Smruti wishes to develop herself to be a more patient listener and a sharp observer to understand the happenings of the world and grow increasingly empathetic. She is passionate about mental health and well being and plans to pursue a career in this field. She is extremely curious about psychology and wants to spread awareness about mental health problems to help those in need.
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