Delusion of New Year's Resolutions

Yes . I know . There we have so many , maybe too many articles in this matter .Its seems like this is so trendy topic for the first days of January .

For this reason I decided do not read anything before I write this article. In that way I have possibility don't repeat over and over again whatever has been said. Evidently we may see that refreshing , new beginning , power of settling goals etc or so seems like a cool water for a coaching mill as this just became business itself.

For this reason they try make this time magical .

But let's face reality . Do You think that You have anything much different into Your hands actually?

No . You are still about the same routine , daily activities, bank account( if You won lotto by that night .Congratulations. ) , job, education level, relationships, location etc and or so. Basically our life doesn't change because we are welcoming a New Year. Yes . This is exciting time of celebration but when just fireworks blew we must face reality.

What is real that any desirable change is a process. Very its often taking a longer than we planed . So what . Sometimes this is a marathon not sprint . This is an action taken every single day . There are decision made and focus on . This is a more serving and healthy habits development .

What is wise and better to realise that we need make all this process enjoyable . Follow passion ; not seeking just results only.

For example I really don't mind whatever anybody will read it or not . I would even just write journal for myself. This is good enough . Why? Because I just love write . I 'm satisfied just with that feeling that I have found a cool words combination. Because I enjoy playing with words.

And this question Why do You want to do something and why do You want change anything is essential. If You don't want change anything that's fine . Practising gratefulness is something very useful in life . Its nothing to mock with. The question is . Will You still happy on this level after another five, ten ,twenty years . I guess hardly ever the answer will be yes .

From this stage we need realise that potentially every single day brings a new opportunity for improvement . How much I love to say that is always space for, Every day we write our story . This is always individual decision however we want still stay in previous chapter or start a new one. And every day we deal with what we want ,what we obliged or what is necessary to do .

The main target is discover our better version . This is more useful then goal orientated race. Just when we are becoming authentic and let ourselves to be real we have a chance lead happy and meaningful life. This is a journey to deep uncovering our needs , motivations and purpose of existence .

Happy Journey .I don't promise that is easy but worth to do so .