Defining Success on Your Own Terms

Dear LinkedIn Community:

As we step into September, I hope this message finds you inspired and ready to align more closely with your true self. This month, I want to delve into a topic that lies at the heart of personal fulfillment: understanding how our values shape our definition of success, independent of societal norms and pressures.

Defining Success on Your Own Terms

In a world where success is often portrayed through external measures—like wealth, status, or recognition—it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We are constantly bombarded with images and stories of what success "should" look like, creating a disconnect between who we are and what we genuinely value. But what if success isn’t a one-size-fits-all concept? What if it’s deeply personal, unique to each of us, and rooted in our values?

Values: Your Internal Compass

Your values are your internal compass, guiding your decisions, actions, and ultimately, your sense of fulfillment. They are the core beliefs that define what is truly important to you—whether it’s integrity, freedom, creativity, connection, or making a positive impact. When your actions are in alignment with your values, you experience a profound sense of purpose and satisfaction. Conversely, when there’s a mismatch, even the most outwardly successful achievements can feel hollow.

Breaking Free from Society’s Definition of Success

It’s easy to get caught up in society’s version of success, chasing goals that don’t align with your true self. To redefine success on your terms, start by getting clear on your values:

1. Reflect on What Matters Most: Take time to explore what genuinely matters to you. Think about moments when you felt truly fulfilled and ask yourself what values were at play. Was it the connection with others, the pursuit of knowledge, or perhaps the freedom to express your creativity?
2. Set Goals Aligned with Your Values: Once you’ve identified your values, set goals that reflect them. If your value is family, success might look like having the flexibility to spend quality time with loved ones. If it’s innovation, it might mean working on projects that challenge you and allow you to think outside the box.
3. Stay True to Your Path: It’s natural to feel the pull of societal expectations, but remember, your path is yours alone. Resist the urge to compare your journey with others. Trust that staying true to your values will lead you to a version of success that feels authentic and meaningful.

The Power of Values-Driven Success

When you define success on your terms, rooted in your values, you not only achieve external accomplishments but also experience a deeper, more sustainable form of fulfillment. This approach empowers you to:

●?????? Make Authentic Decisions: Values act as a filter for decision-making, helping you choose what’s right for you rather than what’s expected by others.

●?????? Experience Greater Resilience: When challenges arise, staying connected to your values provides a strong foundation to navigate adversity with grace and perseverance.

●?????? Build Genuine Relationships: Aligning with your values attracts like-minded individuals, fostering connections that are authentic and supportive.

Embrace Your Unique Definition of Success

As we navigate through September, I encourage you to take a step back and reflect on your personal definition of success. Let go of the pressure to conform to societal standards and embrace a version of success that honors your values. Remember, success is not a destination; it’s a journey that feels right every step of the way.

Here’s to a month of authentic alignment and meaningful progress.

Warm regards,

Sandra Caldera Transformational and Empowerment Coach for Executives and Entrepreneurs Certified Master Coach in Neuro Linguistic Programming