Deep Emotional Connection with Your Boy Friend .

Do you have trouble communicating with your man you love or with men in general? 

Without emotional intimacy, relationships founder on the reefs of emotional discord or flatness—no matter how heated the sex, no matter how much you  hold in common—leaving you marooned from the interpersonal closeness for which you yearn.

Learn to express your remorse from your heart.

Don’t settle for shallow or emotionally flat expressions. If you’re not sorry, don’t say you are — but if you’ve done something that’s hurt another and you feel bad about this, and the words “I’m sorry” get stuck in your throat, say that you’re having hard time saying it. Such a confession will usually soften you enough to allow your remorse a fitting voice.

Never threaten to leave the relationship in order to get your own way or to make your partner beg you to stay.

If you feel like being manipulative, say so, rather than acting it out. Threats are negative promises, and are usually mood-dependent. If you really want to leave a relationship, such wanting will remain present no matter how good, bad, or indifferent you feel.

If so, I know exactly how you feel and I offer you the right words to make your  man fall in love so that you can stop putting a wedge between yourself and a man and start bringing him closer with the power of intimacy.

It’s important to have your own needs and express them clearly. This allows you to build your self-worth while giving you the opportunity to make room for your feelings in the relationship. However, it’s also important to make a man want to provide your needs. 

When you talk with a man from a place of blame or entitlement, it’s harder for him to feel inspired.The key is to show him how you feel inside. This will stir up his empathetic side and make him feel connected to you. He will suddenly want to provide your needs and take care of you. When you are walled off and just barking a list of honey-dos at him, he feels infantilized and controlled.

1. compliment him on his style

2. compliment his "hidden traits"

3. show how much of a man he is *rolls eyes

 4. tell him: I feel safe around you

Magnetic ways of Words

“I feel like I’ve known you forever.”

This is going to trigger Emotional attraction in your man that is the heart melting sh*t that life is made of. He’ll understand that you’re kindred spirits.

“You’re going to have to work a little harder than that if you want to win me over.”

That is that challenge that guys want to work for. Say that to a guy and he’ll begging to win you over. By creating push and pull tension you are showing him your interest while telling him that he is going to have to put in some real effort... because you are a High Value Woman.

 “I’ll always support you with anything you really want in life.”

I am convinced that one of the key evolutionary reasons why we pair bond is to have someone to encourage you when you’re in need. This is the nurturing and comfort part. By offering this type of support and guidance your bond with strengthen.

Life’s a bitch sometimes and it gets in the way of spending time together. When was the last time you made him feel like he was a top priority for you?

Put him first ……… and show him that he’s still the man you want to be with.

Don’t take him for granted. 

Routines happen in relationships, but sometimes routine turns into resentment. Thank him when he cooks your favorite dinner after you’ve pulled several 12 hour days in a row. It’s simple, but it makes him feel loved.

Happily ever after turns into miserable ever after if you’re not making any effort to keep things fresh and moving forward — and he should be doing the same. You love him, so don’t let him forget it. You can remind him why he fell for you .

Of course, he still wants to feel needed. Let him carry something heavy or ask him to help you out with some yard work. It’s a partnership, after all, so make sure he feels like you need his support as much as he needs yours.

Keep the sex alive.

You might not have it as often as you used to, but make time for it, unless there’s some legitimate reason you can’t. Sex is intensely intimate and brings you both closer. He’ll fall more in love with you just from knowing you still find him attractive.

Instead of using sex to build connection, let sex be a fully embodied expression of already-present connection.

When you want to have sex when you are not very connected to the other, turn your attention to your emotional state and do what it takes to bring that into your heart.

You say to your crush "If you were here…. .." He will hugg you you the next day and say I love you?.

A lot of women find it pretty easy to figure out if the guy they are seeing is The One.

Some of you know by the middle of the first date.

He wants kids. O.K .

He loves his career but says family comes first. O.K.

But for guys, figuring out if a woman has long-term potential can be a complicated process. Sure, there are red flags that send them running (like the lady who tattooed a guy’s name to her hand hours after meeting him), but for the most part, it's subtle behaviors that help you evolve from Miss Right Now….. to Mrs. Right.

Your thoughts …………………?

The information on this POST is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional ayurvedic practioner’s advice .All content, including text, graphics, images and information, contained on or available through this article is for general information purposes / educational purposes only, and to ensue discussion or debate.

Thank you … Today, you have other options. Of course, you can still send your man letters or whisper sweet sayings in his ear. However, now, you can also text or email as well.They say that love can happen in a single moment, but you did not believe that until the very moment he fell in love with you.

If you  got to relive your  whole life, the only thing  you  would change is that he would have met you years ago.

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