Deciding who the people are around you

Deciding who the people are around you

Dr Bridget Kirsop Dr Bridget Kirsop

Dr Bridget Kirsop

Chief Unsticker Certified Master Trainer and NLP Master Coach at Dr Bridget NLP Ltd Getting rid of Internal Blocks and self sabotage in business owners in 2 days

发布日期: 2021年12月6日
+ 关注

There is a saying that you are the sum of the 5 people around you.??Well I’m going to adapt that and consider the 6 people around me.

If you are going to surround yourself with people in order for you to be happy then you need to know what sorts of people they are.

In this week’s prescription for success I consider the people around me and show you a useful process to ensure that you have the right people supporting you and helping you to grow.?Watch the video and work through the process for yourself.

I’ve met with quite a lot of new people recently and it’s been interesting seeing what affect they have on me and my growth and happiness.

The six types of people that I have though of are:

  • those that are uncomfortable and feel stuck, they know they need some help.
  • those that are uncomfortable and unaware, they don’t know they are stuck but are unhappy
  • those that are comfortable and happy
  • those that are growing and happy
  • those that are growing and unhappy
  • and finally there is myself

So which types of people do?I want around me?

领英推荐

After careful consideration I’ve identified that these work for me:

  • Those that are uncomfortable and feel stuck I’d probably want as clients so that I can help them.
  • I’d probably be comfortable with people who are themselves comfortable and happy.
  • People who are growing and happy I definitely want these around me so we can learn and grow together.
  • Finally, I’m quite happy with myself, I’m interested in what I do and what keeps me happy.

I’d invite you to get some ‘Post-it Notes’ out and work out the types of people you have around you. You’ll probably find that the people around you are different to mine.?Then identify the types of people who you want to keep around you and those you want to move away from.

If you find this difficult as you are the sort of person who likes to keep people happy or you self sacrifice yourself to people please then?get in touch with me here?as we can sort this out easily.

It’s important to have the people around you that support you and help you grow then the sky is the limit!

Until next week

Dr Bridget – helping you to surround yourself with people that help you.

要查看或添加评论，请登录

Dr Bridget Kirsop的更多文章

  • What crutches are we using for support that we may need to get rid of?
    2023年6月19日

    What crutches are we using for support that we may need to get rid of?

    I had a hip replacement about three and a half weeks ago. I’ve been give some rules which are important to follow – I…

  • Grief from a different perspective
    2023年6月12日

    Grief from a different perspective

    When you’re grieving, you can’t move on and you’re in pain. One of the big reasons for doing some work with grief is…

  • Trauma Healing
    2023年6月5日

    Trauma Healing

    When I was a GP I saw a lot of people with PTSD and I felt really impotent. I couldn’t really do anything for these…

  • Perfectionism is it useful or not?
    2023年5月29日

    Perfectionism is it useful or not?

    Perfectionism is it useful or not? I guess if you’re someone that does perfectionism or likes to be perfect all the…

  • How Our Environment Affects Our Achievements
    2023年5月22日

    How Our Environment Affects Our Achievements

    Our environment is key to us achieving things and it can have a positive or negative effect. This is because your…

  • How NLP Can Create Positive Outcomes
    2023年5月15日

    How NLP Can Create Positive Outcomes

    We all want positive outcomes, don’t we? We just want to feel happy and fulfilled and be the person we want to be, do…

  • How NLP helps pain.
    2023年5月8日

    How NLP helps pain.

    Did you know that you can change people’s pain or your own pain using NLP? The reason we can do this is because pain is…

  • How to use NLP to give Feedback
    2023年4月24日

    How to use NLP to give Feedback

    Giving feedback is really important in our relationships. I’ve recently been working with clients who want their…

  • What is Time Line Therapy?
    2023年4月10日

    What is Time Line Therapy?

    Well to be honest TLT(R) is one of the main reasons that I'm working. I was a GP for 24 years, and when people had…

  • How Complex PTSD Is Helped by NLP
    2023年4月3日

    How Complex PTSD Is Helped by NLP

    I’m really interested in the label complex PTSD. Over the last 12 years I’ve been working with people on getting rid of…

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了