Deaths Are Favored Over Breasts

When you pay attention to popular culture, you understand our level of consciousness as human species.

Death And Destruction

What is the most globally viral show ever? Squid Game.

It's a show about killing people and discarding your loved ones for the sake of money.

Every platform has promoted Squid Game. Many creators on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, have benefited from growing large followings and views by discussing various aspects of the popular South Korean Netflix show.

Mind you, I saw lots of great wisdom in Squid Game. You have to really squint your eyes and see beyond the ridiculous gore to get to the philosophical themes. As a thinker, I also know that the hidden wisdom isn't why so many humans across the globe became so obsessed with this show.

Creation And Nurture Triggers

Two days ago, singer Madonna posted a photo of herself in a lingerie photoshoot that exposed one of her nipples. I casually engaged in the comments section, which I now regret not taking a screenshot of, as that original post was taken down by Instagram due to "indecency."

In my comment, I defended the singer's nipple exposure from men and women's harsh judgment, calling her to stop being a try-hard and to retire now. One woman even said that as a grandmother herself sharing Madonna's age, she was embarrassed for her.

Instagram took down this original nipple post. Madonna reposted a censored version of the photos to cover the nipple, then proceeded to slam Instagram for sexism. Male nipples never get censored. Why is that?

For the purpose of this post, I am also posting the censored photo, not the original, as there is a threat that my article will get taken down. My stance goes against the forces of the overall state of human consciousness and corporate rules and regulations that thrive on female nipple fear.

We live in a culture where humans, and companies created by such humans, are so desensitized and are in favor of destruction. Squid Game portraying brutal killings can thrive on the World Wide Web algorithm, yet a female nipple is so offensive.

A nipple is the ultimate symbol of humanity and creation.

13 years ago, I was breastfeeding my son at a Walmart while I was standing at an isle, looking for a glue gun for a craft project. A Walmart employee approached me and told me to nurse in the bathroom. I told him to go eat a sandwich in there and let me know if he loves the company of shit smell while enjoying his meal. He didn't expect a comeback like that from a very young-looking new mother. He backed away and left me alone. Yet, at that moment, I could only imagine so many mothers around the world who experience shame, feel vulnerable, and feel that they are unable to defend themselves while doing the most natural and beautiful human act: nurturing her precious child.

Why are humans so offended by femininity? Why do humans have such a triggering relationship with nurture? Why do we favor destruction over creation?

We've been ruled by toxic patriarchy for thousands of years. Hunting and killing of humans on screen are considered acceptable, but a bare female breast is not. Why? Through patriarchal programming, we've all been conditioned to be desensitized to toxicity, and be highly triggered by love and truth.

Toxic patriarchy creates invalidation for female roles, causing generational mother wounds, as traumatized mothers can only raise traumatized men and women alike, which further perpetuates the cycle of toxic masculinity. Please note that masculinity is not the same as toxic masculinity. True masculinity conjures power through divine and powerful leadership. Toxic masculinity conjures power through destruction and inducing fear.

Patriarchy based on toxic masculinity perpetuates a society that lacks understanding and appreciation for mothers. We've created an unconscious society driven to favor only what makes money and immediate gratification. Proper mothering and human creation do not deliver rapid financial gains. Mothering is the toughest job, the most long-term job, yet it is the least supported and appreciated job in this world.

In this society, women lose their appeal once they pass a certain childbearing age, or when she becomes a mother. Her body is treated as a sexual object for procreation only, not as the source of human potential. Outside of sexual gratification, her nurture and creation organs are seen as indecent.

What can you do about it? Question the reality you accept as reality. Become the change-maker in your world.

Next time you're triggered by another woman by her sexuality and beauty, instead of judging her, reflect within yourself if your nurture wounds are triggering you to propel patriarchal ideals that perpetuate destruction.

Become a change leader in your own affairs, in how you make decisions in your personal and professional life. As a woman, become fully comfortable with your own feminine qualities and support other women around you to do the same.

"Be the change you want to see in this world" - Mahatma Gandhi

Start within your own life!

Julia Cha?is a Holistic Success Coach for change-makers and change leaders of the world. Love this? Subscribe, and check out her best-selling book,?Am I There Yet??and the?Rich & Loved??book series.

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