Dear buyers, it's OK to tell us NO

Dear buyers, it's OK to tell us NO

  • It’s actually the second best answer a sales rep can hear besides the obvious yes.  The worst sin in sales is not for a sales rep to lose a deal, it’s to take a long time to lose a deal. So, the faster you can figure out a solution is not the right fit and be open and honest with the sales rep the better off we’ll all be. Placating a sales rep and thinking you’re being nice by not telling them you’re not interested is one of the worst things you can do because it gives us a false sense of hope which we will pursue forever and waste everyone’s time while doing so.  As an example, when you get a cold call and you say “send me information” when you’re really not interested and just trying to be nice you’re actually being a lot meaner than if you were to simply say “I’m not interested, thanks.” I’d actually rather be hung up on.

    The reason this came up and I’m writing about it is because this just happened to me yesterday. A guy put a in a web request for information about our services, we played e-mail tag for a while, finally got on the phone, had a good conversation about his needs, talked about the details of our program and even pricing.  He asked for me to send him in the outline of how the training would be delivered onsite and remotely and said he would talk to the other decision makers about which would be the better fit.  He even agreed to a follow up meeting the next week at a specific time that I sent him a calendar invitation for.  I sent him the information about an hour after we talked and soon after he declined the meeting request and sent me an e-mail saying “John, I have absolutely no interest.” Huh? Seriously? Was this the same guy I just spent 30 minutes on the phone with having what seemed to be a really good conversation? If you’ve ever seen the Dave Chappelle episode when Charlie Murphy tells the story about Rick James putting his dirty feet on his couch and then Rick James stares into the camera and says he didn’t do it and in the same breath admits that he did and then says “cocaine’s a hellofa drug.”  That’s what this was like (although no cocaine was involved).  The info I sent over to him didn’t include anything we hadn’t already discuss. He obviously determined he wasn’t interested somewhere during our conversation so why didn’t he just say so?  I guess it’s because no one really likes the awkwardness of telling people no directly but come on.  He’s probably the same type of guy that would break up with someone over a txt message. Grow up.

    For you buyers, please don’t be afraid to hurt our feelings.  It’s ok to say no.  You might get a little push back from the sales rep trying to understand why but ultimately answering a few questions and listening to a potential justification of why you should reconsider is way less painful for everyone involved than stinging us along.  For you sales reps out there, next time you’re talking with a prospective client at some point in the conversation ask them “if there’s a point in this process where it’s obvious to you that we’re not the right fit are you comfortable telling me no?” It’s a weird question to ask and the answer is somewhat obvious.  However, letting someone know that you’re cool with them telling you no can save you and them a lot of time.

    Make it happen!

    "Unityyyy"

    Dan Kriebel

    Real American Man

    9 年

    This was a great article and very accurate. "No" is a much more desirable answer to me than "We will consider this down the road".

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    Cyrus Hamidi

    Solving technical challenges

    9 年

    A reasonable No is more valuable than wasting time and believing for yes - keeping the sales VPs running mad seeing the pipeline is half true. thanks

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    Christopher Hanlon

    Sr. Sales Performance Consultant - Global SMB

    9 年

    I think I am a little confused by the example provided. At face value it appears the prospect did tell you "No" and very quickly in the process?

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    Wynne Brown

    Customer Success & Revenue Executive | Value Delivery | Revenue Growth

    9 年

    Great read. Makes me think of a few things: buyers buy based on value. Yet that happens in a social context that tells us all that we should be "nice". If someone loves me but finds no value in what I offer, they still wouldn't - and shouldn't! - buy. So they string us along. If we all focused on civility vs. being nice, we would all save so much time and get to that quick "No, not right for us, pleasure to have met you."

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    Debby Laycock

    CTGA Show Display at G One Associates

    9 年

    Great article!

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