Dealing with RUDE people or UNPLEASING circumstances | Get CREATIVE with CONDESCENDING SITUATIONS

Dealing with RUDE people or UNPLEASING circumstances | Get CREATIVE with CONDESCENDING SITUATIONS

How to get creative when something condescending happens?

Many times our ego is threatened either by people’s behaviour or words, or some difficult situation at hand.

Sometimes you are having a normal good day, and someone on the road, the cab driver or the random store salesmen completely ticks you off out of the blue.

You didnt ask for it, but somehow the unpleasant experience happened

What do you do in situations like these?

  • Take things lightly completely detach from the situation and person and do not take it personally! Just let it go

One of the toughest things to do, but if you think in terms of mental peace its worth  paying that price of letting go to be right!

  • Walk away from the vibration, cancel the cab ride, or the dress you wanted (nothing and no one is indispensable, and if it costing you your peace of mind it’s not worth it)

Also make peace with not having that exact thing and having an alternative

  • Just upgrade instantly, maybe that wasn’t a match cause you needed a better dress, a luxurious ride

Don’t think twice then just invest in yourself and your mental peace

  • Cash in on this experience :  what can you learn from this, reflect from the friction you just had

Make this experience pay in terms of experiencing wisdom, and what not to do in the future

  • Maybe it is an opportunity to practice more love and compassion to the opposite human being or the situation at hand. Bless it and let it go
  • Laugh at it, make it funny, afterall life is tragedy in the short term and comedy in the long term
  • Use it as fuel, to actually get to a place where these people can never condescend you, work even harder, get tons of success and power to be above all this.


Krishna Kumar

Procurement & Contracting Techno commercial,

6 年

Well written but requires lot of will power. How de we go about getting such a mindset

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Anil Saboo

Chief Happiness Officer @ Elektrolites (Power) Pvt. Ltd. | Renowned Manufacturer, Innovator, Exporter

6 年

Excellent sharing Vinita ??

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Sourav Shah

Head of E-commerce at flydubai | LinkedIn Power Profile 2018 &16 | On 50 most influential e-commerce professionals list

6 年

One of the simplest advice on life hacks put so brilliantly ‘walk away from the vibration that’s causing this’. It’s not worth ruining your day over. Such a beautiful post. Thanks for sharing this Vinita.

Vinita Surana

Passionate about Elevating Mindsets and Businesses | Entrepreneur| Strategic Investor | Keynote speaker

7 年

Thanksss :)

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