Day 26 - Why You Should Hang Out With Givers Not Takers (1,000 days content creation challenge)
Ethan Musolini
CEO Success Africa, Executive Coach, HR Consultant, Author & Motivational Speaker
?If you have ever wondered as to what one the core differences is between super successful and average people, then it’s this…
Successful people are givers
Average people are takers
Why should you stay away from takers?
You will protect yourself from having a wrong mindset of just taking.
You will be saved from developing wrong habits.
If you hand around takers a lot of time, your world will become smaller. It will contract. Because unlike giving which is life giving, taking is life sucking.
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Why should you hang out with givers?
You will swim in lots of great ideas because they generously share what is on their mind.
You will be inspired because you will be looking at their great lifestyle. You will get positive vibes because that’s what they emit from their psyche.
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When you are around great personalities, you will mirror their success which is a great thing.
You will live in an expansive world because givers work towards a greater world
A classic example are Rotarians. They typically pay dues to be part of a group of actions takers making a difference in the world. Now wonder, I always feel good when I Am around Rotarians.
So, next time, before developing a deeper relationship with someone, ask yourself this question…
Is this a taker or giver?
If the answer is “taker” keep a distance.
If the answer is “giver”, get closer or figure out a way to developer a deeper relationship with such a person.
And one of the best ways to attract givers is to become or practice giving yourself. Be a giver and not a taker.
Let me know your biggest take away from this piece. And if you found this to be useful, kindly share with others because they might thank you. God bless you forever!
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??Career Growth Mentor, Finance & Business Coach??| Financial Management Expert at KPMG | CPA Tutor| Speaker & Trainer | New Vision 40 Under 40 ??Passionate at helping you find New jobs, Grow Your Career & Build Wealth??
7 个月Sometimes when we see the word givers, we think of money, this post reminds us that a hand that gives is better than that which recieves, sometimes giving is just being present, it is being an encourager and one who offers value like Ethan. I am here commenting because you are giver and I hope engaging with this post is also a sign of giving to show appreciation that we are following.