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I’ve had many of my transformational leader and coach clients reach out when feeling nervous or insecure before a group coaching session - both experienced and new group program leaders.

As a facilitator of group programs for 15 years, I know how easy it can be to feel all the energies of the group and become uncertain. This can be stressful when you want to ensure your session is the highest quality, and your program gets rave reviews.

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At Sourced, we believe in the power of energetic connection. When you focus on what's alive for you in your own life and space, there's a good chance that it is also alive for your group members.

Take a moment to reflect on the transformation you are going through or the topics that are interesting to you right now. Your group is an energetic container, and if you’re shifting something, the group you’ve drawn to you at this time has come to you for that exact reason. Trust it. ?

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As a leader or facilitator, it's easy to feel the pressure to have all the answers. However, I have found that asking the right questions can have a bigger and lasting impact on your group.

I call this ‘distinguishing a conversation.’

I remember when I had personally been exploring an idea I call “Healthy Compassion,” an idea that Source had dropped into my field. In my next group call, rather than teaching I asked the group, "What might this mean to you?" I shared my hypothesis about boundaries of self compassion and trusting that other people whole and complete, then opened it up. Each person created their own insight, I furthered my thinking, and we all benefited!

Rather than designing your material around providing answers, consider framing it around the conversations you want to explore.

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At Sourced we teach something called Sourced Magic. It’s the way that the divine works with and through you as an inner knowing. This flow of wisdom comes through each of us differently, and when you know how your magic works, you can create an environment in your group calls that allows it to flourish.

For an Expression Magician, having class fully outlined may actually get in the way of providing highest value. A Recognition Magician can plan content based on connections they are noticing in life and the group before class, yet can also quickly see connections when coaching a client live.

Understanding your magic and its ideal conditions will always bring the highest value.

You can find the Sourced Magic quiz Here!

*Bonus Question: Have I Been in a Similar Scenario Before?

In addition to the three questions mentioned above, it's helpful to ask yourself this bonus question.

Often experienced leaders get nervous because of something that has nothing to do with what is happening currently. Outside influences may have activated an unhelpful energy and moved them into fear and doubt.?

But likely you’ve had other times when you felt unprepared (I know a lot of perfectionists!)? Chances are you’ve been here before and it went beautifully! Remind yourself of this, and get ready to have a blast with amazing clients who are thrilled to be a part of the group you’ve curated and held beautifully! ??