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You go to the office, to the gym, or to grab a drink with your friends on a Friday night.

Suddenly, you see her.

She is beautiful.

And you can’t stop looking at her.

You would like to go talking to her, but you start hearing that voice in the back of your mind: “she won’t be interested anyway”, “I’m with my friends right now”, “she is too far away”, “I don’t have time”, “she probably has a boyfriend anyway”.

So, you stay still, and you miss another chance.

The truth?

You are just afraid she would reject you and you would just embarrass yourself.

And that’s normal. I’ve been there myself.

But WHAT IF you knew how to start that conversation?

How to connect with her instantaneously?

What if you had that skill?

So that WHEREVER you are, you can start a conversation that leads to a date and potentially even to a relationship?

So, here are 3 things that will help you get there:

1. Understand that it’s possible.

It is possible that you meet somebody, you start a conversation, and you end up having a date with her the day after, if not even the same day!

IT. IS. POSSIBLE.

2. Assume a positive reaction.

The worst thing you can do when you are about to talk to somebody is assuming they won’t be interested in talking to you.

You can’t blame her for rejecting you if you reject yourself in the first place.

Go all in.

I hear a lot of people talking about eye contact, body language, etc.

If you expect a positive reaction, these things will automatically tend to be in place.

3. Say something.

The first thing you say is the ice breaker.

Obviously, some ice breakers tend to be better than others.

I could write a book only about this, but to give you a general idea, you need something that gets you the foot in the door.

Bonus points if it’s something spontaneous, authentic.

Once you start the interaction, you can steer it in a different direction and ultimately make plans for the next time.

Remember: opportunities are everywhere.

You just need to take them.

All the best.