The Daily Question
Patrick Hudson
Transformation Leader, putting people, process and technology in action.
In a small southern town, there lived a man whose thinning silver hair and gentle smile were as familiar as the town square. Every day, as the school bell chimed, he would sit on his weathered chair outside the garage, waiting for his son to walk home from the bus stop after school.
“Hey, son!” he would call out as the boy approached with a backpack slung carelessly over one shoulder. "What did you learn today?" This question was as much a part of their routine as the smile and wave.
At first, the young boy didn’t understand the weight of the question. To him, it was just another quirk of his father’s, like how he laughed at his own jokes or how he always had a stub of a cigar or time to talk to a stranger. Sometimes, the boy would shrug, replying with a simple "Nothing much," or a vague mention of his school subjects. But his father always asked for just a little more.
One autumn afternoon, as leaves painted the ground in fiery hues, the father shared with him why he asked that question. They were sitting on the chairs, the air crisp and scented with the promise of winter. "When I was about your age," he began, his voice soft but clear, "someone I cared deeply about asked me the same question every day. I never truly appreciated it until much later in life."
"Why did she ask you that?" The boy sipped his soft drink, curiosity sparking in his eyes.
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"She believed that every day held a lesson, maybe not from books or teachers, but from the world itself. It might be something about a friend, a thought about how to solve a problem, or seeing the world through someone else’s eyes."
As days turned into weeks, the young man started to ponder more deeply about his day, eager to share insights with his father. He talked about how he learned to resolve a conflict between friends, or a new word in French that he taught someone else, or even a fact about bees and how they communicate which fascinated him in science class.
Years passed, and the simple question "What did you learn today?" grew into a treasured tradition. The young boy, now a man, went on with his life, married and moved to a city far away for a job, but the question still connected him to his father. They would talk over the phone, and his father would ask, and the young man would share—a new project at work, a book that changed his perspective, or a newfound hobby he was enjoying.
When his father passed away, the young man felt the weight of their shared ritual more profoundly than ever. He had a young family of his own now, and as he watched his children come home bustling with energy and stories, he found himself asking, "What did you learn today?"
Sometimes, at night, he would think about his own day. He realized that the question had taught him to always keep learning, to always stay curious, and to value every little experience life offered. Now, as he passed on this tradition, he understood it was his way of keeping his father’s wisdom alive, ensuring that each day was a step to widen their view of the world, just as his father had hoped.
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4 个月Patrick, thanks for sharing!