A Culture Catalyst

The human tendency is to focus on others' strengths and weaknesses rather than self-reflection. When we ask someone, who is the best, The song "I am the Best” from the Bollywood movie "Phir Bhi Dil Hai Hindustani,"usually comes in our mind and it does capture a sense of self-confidence and positivity. There is a slightest difference between “Self-confidence” and “Self-Ego”. Many times, we think, what we are doing that is best. It might be best for us, but have we equally thought will it be best for the people who surrounds us or being looking at you with faith in their heart by considering that “You are the best” for them.

Determining who is the "greatest" or "most powerful" person can be subjective and depends on the criteria we choose to assess. Different people may value different qualities, and there is no universal scale for measuring greatness. Here are a few factors that people might consider, ie Achievements & Accomplishments, Impact & Influence, Character & Integrity, Wealth & Success, Wisdom & Knowledge, Philanthropy & Generosity, Longevity & Consistency.

It reminds me of one small story once said by a great Bollywood personality. The story is like that in a classroom, zero to nine, all numbers were sitting in ascending order. Suddenly, nine slapped Eight by saying that he is the strongest of all and stronger than eight. Then Eight slapped Seven by saying that he is stronger than seven, like that manner entire house filled with slapping sounds in descending order to show their power. By seeing all these zero got literally nervous as it is the youngest of all and hide itself under table. Then One came near zero and asked him, why are you hiding yourself and why are you shivering. One told Zero that, he won’t harm as it is the innocent one and gave his hand to come out from the table. Then zero asked one, “you are also younger than rest of the seniors, how will you safeguard me from the slap”. Then One smiled asked zero to sit right next to him. Then when rest all asked one why he is not following the culture of “senior slapping youngers”, ONE holds the hand of ZERO and said now they are together, ( ONE+ZERO = TEN-10), now he is the most powerful than all. So, all must follow their instructions of stopping slapping culture.

it cleverly illustrates the concept of collaboration and unity, showing that sometimes combining individual strengths can create a more powerful force. The transformation of zero into ten, symbolizing unity and cooperation, is a great metaphor for the idea that individuals, when working together, can overcome challenges, and become stronger collectively. The one who break the chain of toxicity, become the great, like how ONE broke the chain.

One’s greatness is not solely determined by external factors such as age, rank, money, or power. Instead, it suggests that qualities like knowledge, thoughtful decision-making, morality, kindness, and the ability to stand with the right principles and people contribute to true greatness.

It reinforces the idea that true strength and greatness come from within, from one's character and values. The story encourages us to look beyond superficial measures of success and recognize the importance of qualities that contribute to positive and meaningful impact in the world. It's a reminder that being considerate, wise, and morally upright can lead to a more fulfilling and impactful life.

?Being a culture catalyst and challenging toxic norms can indeed contribute to positive change. It takes courage to question established practices and strive for a better future. Change often begins with individuals who are willing to challenge the status quo, question harmful traditions, and work towards creating a more inclusive and compassionate environment.

By actively participating in positive change and breaking away from toxic cultures, individuals can pave the way for a healthier and more supportive community. It's a reminder that each person has the power to influence their surroundings and contribute to a better future. Embracing change for the well-being of oneself and others is a commendable approach to life.

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?Disclaimer: This article is based on just purely on my view & experience towards life. Here, neither my organization nor any specific person’s viewpoint have been influenced. So, read & enjoy as an article.

Regards

Swatilekha Nayak ( Author)

Bangalore

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