The CRUCIAL Difference Between Compliance and Consent (And Why It Matters) with Vanessa Bohns

The CRUCIAL Difference Between Compliance and Consent (And Why It Matters) with Vanessa Bohns

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Do you know the influence you have on others??


I have to be honest - until recently, I really didn’t.


As I was growing my company, it was my goal to be a leader that not only encouraged excellence, but open communication amongst the members of my team.?


Because I had spent so much time investing in my relationships, I assumed that if there was ever any trouble, I would be the first to know.


I was wrong.


What I didn’t realize was that as I grew into a leadership role and power dynamics “shifted” - so did my level of influence.?


If I made a request, or asked if something was possible, I wasn’t aware that because of my position of authority people may agree when they really wanted to say no.?


I assumed “yes” meant “yes”, when it really meant “I want to say no but I don’t want to disappoint or offend my boss Kwame.”?


This is the difference between compliance and consent - and the topic of my latest conversation with Vanessa Bohns !?


As a psychology nerd, every conversation I have with Vanessa is MIND-BLOWING. This one was no different.?


My hope is that it will do the same for other leaders like myself - those who may find themselves struggling with the transition from friend/colleague to boss.?


Those who want to lead effectively - but also cultivate a healthy and honest working environment for their employees.


Click here to today’s episode and let me drop your feedback in the comments!?


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Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.

Top Booked Negotiation Keynote Speaker | #1 Negotiation Podcast

2 年

#Communication #leadership #HumanResources

Donna Brown-Hardnett, Esq.

New Economics for Women SME| SCORE LA Past Chapter Chair | Mentor & Professor Entrepreneurship | Intellectual Property Law Protection | Business Strategy | Federal Trademark Protection | Legacy Building | Wealth Strategy

2 年

Compliance vs Consent…. hadn’t thought of it that way. Yet, I’m confident I’m in the middle of taking lessons on this from Sophomore Iin College!

Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.

Top Booked Negotiation Keynote Speaker | #1 Negotiation Podcast

2 年

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CHESTER SWANSON SR.

Realtor Associate @ Next Trend Realty LLC | HAR REALTOR, IRS Tax Preparer

2 年

Very Interesting Article, On The Difference Between Compliance and Consent.

The Messiah

The Veteran Artist Advocacy Project, Inc. 501(c)3 for The Black Bullet Dichotomy which decreased the amount of unarmed Black men killed in America teaching Spirit-centered emotional relief techniques through Hip Hop.

2 年

Bravo! This podcast was extremely interesting and informative! A couple of catch phrases I’ll be taking with me! Like “update your mental model” and the hard to gauge “emotional residue.” Very well done!

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