Creating a Life

by Gina Yallamas - helping aspiring leaders navigate and weave a regenerative way of life through deep wellness, awareness and connection with themselves, others and the planet.

Life is essentially an evolving accumulated intentional force that we co-create into physical form. We access a field of information (quantum field) that holds interactive particles and waveforms in spaces within and around us, harnessing energetic frequencies to transform unconscious or conscious intentions into a reality. That's one way to explain it through new science.

Another way is to see life through a series of elevated poetic feelings where we access our creative imagination (still the quantum field) and appreciate the awe, wonder and beauty of all that we have in our lives from good health to the amount of money we have in our bank account. Ultimately, whatever our predominant focus is, is what we are creating and manifesting.

I marvel at both the magic of the new science and the playfulness of the imagination. Both are complimentary and opposite in their own ways. Again, everything comes back to a polarity of some kind for me - the simplicity of the yin yang theory. From any polarity balance can be created by choice. What are we choosing as we step into our future in each moment of each day?

Similarly, our personal journey's are intertwined with our collective human journeys and realising how intimately woven they are from a new science perspective gives me the foundation for living a life with even more wonder, creative imagination and joy. That doesn't mean I ignore the reality of pain and chaos that occurs simultaneously as we experience our own and others feelings and situations. It means there's a balance between the the past and present that is being rapidly transformed and healed and another balance between the present and the future that is being dreamed into being.

I call these 'zones' 1: Balance and 2: Beyond. These appear as spaces in my reality that I choose to visit, listen to, explore and maintain intuitively. Without these IN-sights, my reality can be over-run with frazzle, busyness, distraction and more. This is more than a meditation, it's an inner relationship I have with the parts of my whole being that are navigating this physical form I live in, my body. I have only recently described this inner team as a co-op so I can relate to a way of being through a living system.

So what does all this mean? To some degree it means I am 'making a life' through my own learnt reference points that create meaning for the way I choose to be in the world. Or it could also mean I am making things up as I go because life is one great experiment in which we can choose to participate on many levels of relationship. Ultimately we are the creators of our lives and that's a huge individual responsibility. What do you beleive?

In community, we can learn and grow together, yet we still need to hold ourselves accountable for our thoughts, words, action, habits and beliefs. This intermediate balance point between the 'I' and 'We' is often a threshold we can get stuck in as we transition through life and all its machinations and stages of development. There's a lot to learn along the way and these rites of passage exist to keep us 'in check'.

The nature of balance is fundamentally intuitive and if these deep listening capacities are compromised, we can miss the essential life cues that keep us in 'active flow'. Human's are designed to live a life in active flow so we can grow and contribute effectively. I feel that making a life, in relationship with all, is the true purpose we are here yet how complicated we make it may be the real issue.

As we amplify messages of complexity, uncertainty and unpredictability, one pattern emerges for me - our 'addiction' to these words that also have an opposite and complimentary meaning held within their energy. In Yin Yang theory, you can't have one without the other, they are energetic partners - positive and negatives. Wherever we focus, we bring that energy into our reality, individually and collectively.

As we simultaneously honour what has been and what is emerging, how are we truly fostering our inner and outer ecologies to sustain a more adaptive, connected and regenerative way of life? Without creating a sound foundational and deeper inner balance, we may be unknowingly bringing more of what we are choosing to leave behind as we evolve into our collective future. Each of us has the innate ability to go 'beyond' so we can contribute in new ways and that requires a deep inner enquiry.

How do we define the subtle differences between the densities of the statements 'making a living' and 'making a life' and then how do we shift our perceptions graciously and with acceptance to make space for a lighter perspective? New ways of being in the world are fraught with challenges and opportunities.

Ultimately, working towards an evolved, balanced and integrated community of healthy relating begins with that connection to who we are and how we relate to each other and the place we live. Although a collective dissonance may be globally resounding in this now moment, we can all contribute to actively and energetically going 'beyond' and dreaming in a new future of collective resonance. Energy is a powerful tool when we believe in its power.

If you're ready to engage deeply with your 'balance' so you can go 'beyond', email me on [email protected] to find out how these bespoke offerings can help you in these times of transition.

As the seasons shift from Winter into Spring in the southern hemisphere, we move from contracted inward focused energies into expanding outward focused energies to begin the next cycle of seeding new beginnings and future opportunities. This is an extremely powerful time to be receiving coaching and healing as we make space for who we choose to be in the world and how we can contribute collectively.

Look forward to connecting with you!

Gina