Creating An Emotionally Safe Workplace: What Managers Can Learn From Effective Parenting
Joshua Miller
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An effective leader must possess various qualities and attributes in order to successfully motivate employees and create a safe, productive work environment.
Many managers often overlook the importance of creating a workplace
that is conducive to their employee's emotional needs.
If you want to ensure that your employees are productive and satisfied with their position, it is vital that you work diligently to foster open communication and conflict resolution.
You should never underestimate the importance of developing an effective company culture and work environment. Companies that don't support their employees and who allow morals and ethics to fall by the wayside will often see a decline in employee productivity rates. This can lead to lower profit margins as well as a poor public reputation.
Below are several helpful tips you may want to take into consideration in order to build an emotionally safe workplace as well as what anyone in a leadership role can learn from parents about behavioral management:
DEVELOPING EFFECTIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS
Conflict is a part of every workplace, and while it is important to take steps to prevent it from occurring, it can often be inevitable. This is why it is important to develop effective conflict resolution skills as a manager. It will allow you to deescalate situations before they progress into something more serious and will help to create a safe and positive work environment in which your employees are able to thrive and reach their full potential.
This is a skill that many parents must-have, especially if they have more than one child. Many parents find that it is beneficial to establish healthy boundaries and to teach beneficial coping mechanisms, both of which can also be helpful in any work environment.
- You might want to consider properly training employees so that they are able to interact with one another in a positive and productive manner.
- You may also want to set clearly defined rules so that employees fully understand what type of behavior is expected from them while they are on the job.
- Additionally, when conflict does arise, it can be helpful to teach your employees how to effectively deal with their emotions. You might want to suggest that they take a break to calm down or that they open up about their feelings in order to work through an issue.
LEADING BY EXAMPLE
Another helpful skill that managers can adopt from parents is the ability to successfully lead by example. Many parents realize that their children develop similar traits and behaviors that they themselves exhibit. This can often be a good thing, but it can also mean that the people around you may pick up on your negative habits as well. Therefore, it can be beneficial to be a good role model at work. This will show your employees how they should act in order to be taken seriously in the workplace.
- Your employees will often look to you for guidance, and taking responsibility for your actions, respecting others, and maintaining a high standard of morals and ethics will help to promote these qualities in your employees.
- The way that you present yourself will reflect on your company and will set a precedent for the entirety of the workplace. If your employees see that the company values loyalty, inclusiveness, and integrity, they will know that, when they come to work, they need to adhere to these standards.
IMPLEMENTING CONSEQUENCE FOR NEGATIVE BEHAVIORS
Taking disciplinary action against employees is never easy. However, this is another vital skill that managers can take away from parenting. It is important that you set rules and expectations for your employees. These should be clearly defined and made known to all employees so that they know the potential consequences of negative behaviors. Letting things slide that damage workplace morale and that may make other employees feel unsafe at work, should be avoided. For example, if an employee begins harassing others within the workplace, this should be addressed.
- If you ignore it, this will give other employees the impression that the company does not take these issues seriously and that they are free to do the same.
- Therefore, you need your employees to understand there are consequences, which will help to prevent creating a workplace that is out of control and in which negative behaviors thrive.
IN CLOSING: There are many similarities between effective parenting and management skills if you pay close attention. Both roles require strong leadership, disciplinary action, conflict resolution, and setting a good example. If you are able to handle workplace conflict in a professional and productive manner, this will help to create a safe environment that makes your employees feel good about coming to work each day. When you are able to lead by example and become a manager that your employees respect, this will show them how to properly present themselves in a professional setting.
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5 年I’ll mention the same perspective that I did on a similar post by, Joy Mcadams today. “Leadership principals apply not only in the board room but also in the living room” Building a quality corporate culture, is in ways very similar to building a healthy family environment. Creating, nurturing and growing spaces of inclusiveness where every participant both leader and subordinate can thrive as the best version of themselves is paramount to creating favorable outcomes. Companies, like families have conflict from time to time and investing in ways to manage those moments of conflict and even better, grow from them is what yields true evolution. The best of leaders do not necessarily seek to avoid conflict but seek to truly be connected with their team so that when conflict does arise, it doesn’t escalate into something that sucks the productivity and positivity out of the work environment. Joshua Miller
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5 年For anyone who isn't sold on the idea of fostering psychological safety in the workplace, I would ask them "What are the benefits of creating fear, uncertainty and doubt?"? Those are, in my opinion, the three most debilitating, demotivating and disempowering human emotions.? Be a leader that people choose to follow. #followership?#leadwithlove?#peoplefirst?#trust?#mission?#impact?#empowerment?
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5 年Yes, this is true. Leading by example is the most powerful in my book.
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5 年Many times you need to take tough decisions, and many times they might seem harsh, but you are on that "leadership" position because you know which decisions to take so that they are for everyone's benefit in the long run Joshua Miller
Great article Joshua, like parenting, leadership is all about relationships and people. Doing it right is not about shutting out the caring and loving parts of who we are. Instead, managing others should be about integrating the personal and the professional into an authentic approach to growing people, whether they’re little or big.