Create a New Beginning with your partner this New Year
Emma K. Viglucci, Relationship Therapist (She/Her)
Founder of MetroRelationship.com
What is your tradition for wrapping up the year? What kind of bow do you like to put on it? Have you acknowledged all your accomplishments and experiences you’ve had this year? Have you wrapped up anything you don’t want to carry into the New Year? What else are you leaving behind? Do you have any other special transition practices to glide into the New Year? How are you having your Future Self’s back? How are you resetting and realigning for your New Beginning ? Now is the time to give all this some thought to have a magnificent and smoother transition into the New Year…?
And what does resetting and realigning mean??
~ They mean that you revisit what who you are and how you become more your true self…?
~ They mean that you revisit what kind of partner you want to be and what kind of relationship you want to create…?
~ They mean that you revisit what kind of lifestyle you want to live and what kind of life you want to create…?
Tall order? Maybe, but this doesn’t have to be intimidating. You can focus only on the area that resonates most for you if you want to streamline your process. The key here is that what we focus on grows- or becomes, or we create... By giving attention to what we desire, not what we don’t desire mind you, we energize it and make it so… I know, not very scientific but I’ll spare you those insights for the sake of getting to the crux of it here for you.
Our Signature Planning Process can help you get all this under your belt. A key concept as you do your planning is that it requires some dreaming . This is the fun part in my opinion, aside from setting up the actual strategy of course… (Yes, I can be nerdy- don’t judge me! LOL) Do dare to get in touch with your big dreams. Go big, why not? What would light up your heart should that thing come to be??
Remember, that accomplishing some part of a big dream is a lot more that accomplishing all of a small one or nothing from not having one… Don’t let your dream, or your partner’s intimidate you. The other thing is to then find a way of making those a shared dream. This is where the juice is- togetherness, meaning , purpose , synergy , joy, happiness… Have fun with this!
And then, is the next important piece… Then you can collaborate with your partner in developing your plan and making it a reality … This is your chance for a New Beginning…
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