The cost of losing (your best) people:
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Most leaders invest their time in the wrong people...and the right people leave.
You May Be Investing Your Time in the Wrong People
?Excerpt from The Cave, The Road, The Table and The Fire:
?I’m not sure this is a true story, but it makes a great point. My father passed it on and I’ve applied it to great effect in my leadership.
?'You get to choose who you lead and who you lose!’ he said emphatically to me. I was bemoaning the levels of opposition and churn in the organization I was trying to lead, and he was trying to get me to prioritize apprenticeship. He went on to tell me Napoleon would divide his army into thirds.
Napoleon (allegedly!) believed a third of his forces were so loyal to him, the empire and the cause, that when they caught sight of the enemy, he had to hold them back from just attacking. They were up for it!
?With another third, he had the opposite problem. Made up of conscripts and criminals, they were disloyal, didn’t care about the empire, and had no real love for Napoleon. In contrast, when they saw the enemy, they were more likely to desert, to run away. The final third, Napoleon reasoned were waiting to see who was going to win the argument. Are we attacking or fleeing?
?My father explained that in his experience, most leaders deployed almost all their energy trying to persuade the leavers not to leave. Consequently, three things happen.
You get to choose who you invest your time in. I say: choose or curiosity. Choose those who are up for growing and keen on learning from you and invest your time disproportionately. Choose to give most energy to Learners, give no oxygen to the Leavers, and give grace to the Laggards. Trust that your attention given to the curiosity of the Learners will create a culture of keenness in those whose disposition is to wait and see.
Think about it...
Who specifically on your team gets the most of your time presently? Should they
Who should get more of your attention and mentorship?
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Who might you simply need to allow to leave, because you know they're slowing you down?
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