Control this- And you really can have anything

What I'm about to tell you and explain has the greatest impact on the outcome of life.

I get this sounds like another overblown, wild promise in the world of life and business but hear me out.??This is 100% true and if you gain dominion over this, you really can have anything.??

The greatest challenge we will ever face is the voice in our head telling us we can’t.??You see for every last person on earth our common enemy is thought.??We are not aware of it but what happens is that every time we have a thought we go inside the subconscious mind, open the files from past experience and ask, “What do we know about this”???The information stored in the mind from past experiences informs us.??The information by the way can be put there from a variety of sources.??Your own experience.??Something you heard on the media.??From a co-worker.??A neighbor.??The pages of a book.??A TV show. Any source that has the capacity to allow you to take in information.??Then, when we have a thought, we access this information, and that’s how all decisions are made.??

For knowledge and training and skill development this is an incredible process.??The accessing of the information from past experience allows us to drive a car, make coffee, take care of our children, do our jobs and tie our shoes.?

Sadly, this exact same process is responsible for the limitations that steal away hopes and goals and dreams and our God given potential.??It is the retrieval of information from past negative experiences that stops us in our tracks.??Here are some examples,

“I want to call a new client”??- Voice says, “This doesn’t work out for you, why bother”

“I’m going to get into shape and go to the gym”- Voice says, “How many times have you tried this before and failed.??Forget it”

“I want to fall in love and be happy” -Voice says, “Who would want you”??

“I want to be a great success and buy a beautiful home to raise my kids” Voice says, “With what you earn, that’s never going to happen”

None of these examples need to be true, yet for millions, examples like these steals away life and happiness.??The truth is we CAN get into shape, we CAN find love and be happy, we CAN be a great success and buy a beautiful home to raise our kids in.??What’s stopping us is how we react to the information stored in the files of the subconscious mind from past experiences.??Think of them like the pages of the screenplay of your life.??

I want to share this story as an example of what this is all about.?

"He was eight years old.??They lived in an old broken-down house on a winding country road.??Poverty and health issues led to drug abuse and alcoholism.??Violence, fear and suicide threats became the tapestry of life.??

On this day like most others, he got off the bus from school alone.??His brothers and sister had mercifully grown older and were able to escape.??As the youngest he felt trapped every day, drawn back into it.??It was a maddening movie he was not able to shut off.??He walked up the drive to the front door and it was locked.??His was not the kind of house you locked.??The running joke was that you would hope people would break in and take stuff.??They had birds living in the house that they called pets.??He knocked and no one came.

There was a small diamond shaped window set in the middle of the weather-beaten door.??To block the sun he cupped his hands around his eyes and peered in.??There on the floor near the entrance was his mother’s body lying face down.??Motionless.??A large pool of blood encircled her head.??He tried as hard as he could to get it open and then raced to the back.??That door was unlocked.?

Shaking and crying he ran to her, staring down.??His mind screaming.??Alone. Broken.??In a panic he called a neighbor who lived about a mile away who was a nurse.??Through sobs he could only get out.??“Help.??Please help.??My mother.??Please help”.

She came as fast as she could, but it felt like an eternity. There was blood everywhere.??He stood frozen, shaking as she tended to his mom.??It turned out that it was not a suicide threat made good on.??She had gotten drunk, fallen and hit her nose on the coffee table, bled everywhere and passed out.??

When the neighbor was able to revive her, he called his father who was at work.??He was always there.??Almost never home.??He too hid as much as he could from the horrors of their life.??The boy told him what happened and begged him to come home.

“She’s fine”.??He said,??“What do you want me to do about it.??I’m at work”.??And he hung up.??He was eight years old.

That was a page from my screenplay.??That was my story or one of them.??There were many more.

I want you to take a moment and really take in what I’m about to say.??This is the key to all of it.??

If you were sitting with me right now as I told this story I would ask you this question.??

“Is it possible that an event like that could impact how I see life and family and trust and being safe today”???I’m sure your answer would be “Yes, of course”.

Then my question to you would be,?

“Yes……………………………..

……………..but do you see my mother???

No…………………she’s gone.??

She’s not here anymore…………………………………… and neither is that event.??

Understand that whatever I allowed to happen in my life from that day on stemmed from nothing more than a hologram of a memory from a past experience that was no longer here.??This is it.??If you get this.??Really get this, it will change your life.

By holding onto it and replaying the movie in my mind the wound became deeper and deeper.??The impact and my limitations fanned out like the ripples in a pond from a stone tossed in.??I have spent my life studying the science of the mind and how all of this happens and how I could fight to overcome it and have my life back.??The truth I discovered is like all past experiences, it’s gone.??Healing would require me to understand one very powerful fact.??That it can’t touch me anymore”.?

AND YOURS CAN’T EITHER.??

This exact premise is a fact for every past experience you had that has created limitations and a voice of doubt.??We become limited because we allow it to happen.??Of course, it’s not from intention.??This all happens on a sub-conscious level through a simple process of the retrieval of past information from this thing we call ‘thinking’.??

Whatever events from your past as they were from mine follow the same process.??Once they happen, they are gone.??Nothing more than ghost from the past that can no longer touch you if you choose to move beyond and live here.??

When we get that.??I mean really get that then the process to heal can begin.??I’m not going to lie to you and tell you now that you know this that your limitations you feel will wash away like a coal miners grime.??It will take commitment and work and a desire to fight to get your life back but you can and you will.??

With everything inside of you at this exact moment my deepest hope is that you know this.??This memory.???The fading pages from the screenplay of your life are gone and once you realize this and see them for what they are you life will change.??All those thing that happened to you are gone and can’t hurt you anymore.??

So here’s the process to create your brand new, powerful, wonderful life of potential.??Get good at identifying the ‘voice’ that tries to convince you that you can’t.??From this moment on, every time you have a thought and then feel yourself being talked out of it, ask the question.??Is what the voice is telling me about what’s in front of me at this exact moment or is it something from my past.??99.9% if the time it will be from your past.??Know that your future lies in the decisions made in the moment and tell the ghosts from the past to leave.??You are not listening any more. You will no longer be dictated to by holograms of memories that can’t touch you anymore.?

As I said from the beginning, control this and it’s true.??You CAN have anything.??

Thanks for listening.??I’m Randy Taylor.??

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