The Connections That Anchor Us in a Disconnected World

In Sunday’s Washington Post, I came across an article by Judith Graham that resonated with me. Her piece explores how older adults living alone often rely on neighbors, friends, and local networks to maintain their independence and well-being. It got me thinking about how these stories compare to the observations and experiences we’ve had at LeanOnWe. What she describes—both the challenges and the power of human connection—connects with the work we do every day.

In a world where we're more "connected" than ever before, it’s surprising how many of us still feel disconnected. For some, especially older adults living alone, that disconnection isn’t just a passing feeling—it’s a daily reality.

I’ve seen firsthand how the simple act of checking in, sharing a meal, or lending a hand can transform someone’s life. It’s not just about addressing loneliness (though that’s a big part of it). It’s about creating a network of people who care, who step in when life throws challenges your way, and who remind you that you’re not alone in this journey.

Take Donald Hammen, an 80-year-old who lives alone in Minneapolis. Every morning, his neighbor Julie checks to see if he’s raised the blinds in his dining room. If not, she knows something’s wrong and takes action. It’s a small gesture, but it carries enormous weight. For Donald, it’s more than an act of kindness—it’s his safety net.

Or think about Michelle Wallace, who has spent years cultivating meaningful relationships in her community after realizing that family wasn’t nearby or always available. She now has close friends who are "like sisters" and neighbors who help her in times of need. That local network isn’t just a convenience—it’s her lifeline.

These stories highlight something profound: human connection is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. It’s the glue that holds us together when life feels uncertain, the bridge that helps us cross challenges we can’t face alone.

And the truth is, building these connections isn’t just about helping others—it helps us, too. The act of reaching out, of showing up, brings its own sense of purpose and fulfillment. When we create a circle of support, we’re part of something bigger than ourselves. That’s how communities are built—one small act of care at a time.

At LeanOnWe, we see this every day. Caregiving isn’t just about services—it’s about connection. It’s about being there for someone, not just to assist with tasks but to share a laugh, listen to a story, or provide comfort in a tough moment. Those connections are what bring meaning to the work and to life itself.

Loneliness has been called an epidemic, and I believe connection can be a part of the cure. Whether it’s a neighbor checking on you, a friend lending a hand, or a caregiver who shows up not just out of obligation but with genuine compassion, those relationships are what keep us grounded.

The question isn’t whether you’ll face challenges in life—we all will. The question is: who will be there when you do?

Let’s build those connections. Let’s reach out, show up, and make sure no one has to face their struggles alone.