Connection not Possession: Tribute To General Ogolla.

In the grand scheme of existence, our individual lifetimes are but fleeting moments. Yet, within these moments, we allocate substantial energy and resources to pursuits that often hold transient value. Six decades ago, people cherished possessions that today seem quaint and outdated. The allure of shiny new cars, modern houses, and cutting-edge gadgets can be captivating, but their allure is ephemeral. As time marches forward, these possessions fade and become obsolete, replaced by the next wave of novelties.

Amidst this ever-changing landscape of materialism, it becomes imperative to reassess our priorities. What truly endures beyond the transient glamour of possessions and technological novelties? The answer lies in the realm of human relations—the connections and relationships we create with others throughout our journey.

The quality of our human interactions profoundly shapes the structure of our lives. How we relate to fellow human beings, the depth of empathy and understanding we extend, and the bonds we forge all contribute to our well-being and sense of fulfillment. It is through these connections that we find meaning beyond the fleeting pleasures of material possessions.

However, navigating the terrain of human relations requires discernment and caution. Not everyone we encounter has noble intentions; there exist individuals whose purpose is to sow discord and cause harm. In light of this reality, finding a balance between openness and vigilance becomes essential.

Striking this balance involves cultivating self-awareness and emotional intelligence. Understanding our own motivations, strengths, and vulnerabilities equips us to navigate human interactions with grace and wisdom. It also allows us to recognize red flags and protect ourselves from those who seek to exploit or harm us.

Moreover, cultivating meaningful connections extends beyond immediate gratification; it encompasses a deeper commitment to building communities based on mutual respect, trust, and compassion. In a world increasingly driven by superficiality and instant gratification, nurturing genuine human connections becomes an act of resilience and defiance—a reaffirmation of our shared humanity amidst the tide of transient pursuits.

As we tread the path of human relations, let us remember that the true essence of life lies not in the possessions we amass but in the connections we nurture. It is through these connections that we find solace, joy, and the enduring legacy of a life well-lived.

''However hard you work, no matter the number of friends/foe you gain, however rich/poor you are; our time here is finite and we shall leave everything here when the time comes.'' O'brian Owiro.