CONFLICT in Relationships!

Overtime, I've heard relationship couples complain about how boring and monotonous their relationship has become.

Distance doesn't ruin relationships doubts do, and love will always prevail.

Relationships are made up of two individual people, each person has their own stuff to work on after they have their own stuff to work on then we have the relationship that we work on together.

Conflict in relationships arise, due to many situations. Some of the most common conflict is based around commitment. Our word is King, and when we commit to something, it means that we are willing to walk the talk. Individuals who do not keep their word in a relationship start to become triggered by three different areas trust, loyalty, and lying. What I mean by this is that when an individual is unable to keep their own word to themselves they are triggered when the other person doesn't keep their word. What is then creates is huge amounts of resistance, this resistance then leads onto resentment the resentment turns into rejection and then the rejection turns into repression. also known as the four R's.

As you can imagine resistance becomes uncomfortable resentment becomes painful rejection becomes hurtful and repression is when we completely turn our attention into other ways to fulfil our needs, for example work, children, hobbies and even pointing our attention towards another person.

This can create an excess amount of tension within the relationship, purposeful controlling, narcissistic behaviour, and even harshness. People can feel trapped, guilty, scared and even disconnected from life itself.

I have seen with my own eyes relationship turn around at this point, it takes two individuals willing to commit to compromise and to bring up their own responsibilities to make these changes, to shift the paradigm and take real responsibility of the decisions that they've made.

The second point that I want to talk about is this truly comes down to commitment, our word is king as I've mentioned earlier before, those who are committed to each other, to the relationship, to make real change and work on themselves are able to turn away from the pain and create an exceptional relationship filled with pleasure.

Join me this Thursday, late night session 10 pm webinar to find out more about how you can understand Conflict resolution in relationships!

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