Conflict is Normal - Part 2
Linda Vettrus-Nichols
Clarity Coach | Book in 30 Days Coach | Author x 24 | Relationship Marketing Coach | Vision Strategy Roadmap Coach | Podcast Host - FROM MY HEART TO YOURS
Dorrit K. : “When it comes to conflict in relationships, especially husband and wife relationships, I like to think of the conflict as a speed bump. Seeing a speed bump ahead of time gives us an opportunity to slow down. If we happen to race over a speed bump, everyone is jostled. It’s important to really slow down and carefully listen to one another so we are aware of what is going on.?
Conflict isn't about winning an argument, it's about understanding and growing. Speed bumps are crucial for any relationship to grow.”?
Staying curious and listening to other people’s perspectives is important as long as you filter it through who they are and not who you are. Knowing who you are gives you the opportunity to understand the other person and make a decision for yourself, not them. Solving conflict involves empathy, compassion, and love for yourself. That doesn’t mean you are more important than the other person, you are 'as' important.
Like they say, 'It takes two to tango/tangle'.
Remember that you don’t have to enter into a conflict."
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