The Conflict of Choice
Karen Valencic
Collaboration & Innovation through Conflict Mastery | Best-Selling Author | Speaker | Executive Coach | Aikidoist | Online Course Creator | Everything DiSC Partner
How often do you experience a conflict of choice?
As a business owner, even with clarity of purpose and budget constraints, the conflict of choosing still exists.
This or That??
In my life, it goes beyond business decisions; even 30 years ago, there weren't so many choices. Now, just choosing a case for my phone can be paralyzing.?
I am slowly reading (or, better put, contemplating) the book "Antifragile" by Nassim Nicholas Taleb.?
He discusses Buridan's principle, which refers to a hypothetical situation in which a hungry and thirsty donkey is placed midway between a stack of hay and a pail of water. The paradox states that?since the donkey cannot decide between hay and water, it dies of hunger and thirst.
The solution???
Randomness.?
Taleb suggests only something random will move the donkey in one direction.??
I smiled when I read this; even with my trained analytical skills as an engineer, I sometimes flip my trusty Swiss coin for a random intervention.
I didn't know there was such a fancy name for this action! I notice the coin suggests a direction. That is randomness.
However, at random, I often make the opposite decision. Sometimes, heading in a specific direction gives clarity to go the other way.
Who new flipping a coin is a good option?
How do you interject randomness when you are stuck in the conflict of choice?
#choice #conflictresolution #mastery #leadership #antifragile #cointoss
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Let's roll! Karen
I love this! Great overview and awareness. BTW, your point about "flipping a coin" during those moments of not having clarity, the heads or tails result clarifies the direction not previously revealed to us, possibly revealing the opposite direction! It breaks our stuckness! Thanks for reminding me of this tool!