Confident Women

Do you remember that intoxicating rush you get when you are in a new relationship?

You were probably nervous, excited, infatuated,. It is intoxicating…

You can’t stop thinking about him…the little things that turn you on and make you feel those butterflies…

But while you were focusing all of your attention on HIM, you forgot the most important thing:

Yourself !

Here’s the thing:

Men love confident women.

If you let a guy know that you're worth his time by showing him how confident you are ……he’ll respect you even more and want to be with you.

Try these texts the next time you get the feeling he only thinks of you as a casual fling when you want something more.

“You can look, but you can’t touch…”

This shows off your confident side.

He’ll be thinking about touching you, but realizes he needs to work at it.

It’s still flirtatious while adding a bit of a challenge that men love.

“I know I’m a good time, the question is are you?”

This playful jab at his manhood will perk him right up thinking this girl knows what she wants.

And he’ll try to prove to you how fun he is, just to keep up with you.

You don’t jump into conversations and act like you know everything. You listen to other people and you ask appropriate questions. You tend to make people feel good about themselves. People find themselves gravitating to you for advice or just small talk .

They carry themselves with an air of success, grace, and determination. The energy change when they entered a room. They are memorable.

Don’t gossip.

Confident women don’t talk about other women, they talk about their dreams, plans and aspirations.

Don’t doubt

You won’t hear them second-guess their decisions. Hesitation isn’t part of their process. They know what they are doing and why they are doing it at all time. They think their decisions through thoroughly but once they have decided, they have decided.

Don’t follow trends

Confident women are trend setters. They spend no time thinking about what is “in” and instead they make choices based on what they like. They are finely attuned to their own needs and preferences. And they are not afraid to ask for what they want.

Never suppress feelings

When something is on their mind, you will know it. They tell it like it is. With confidence comes the ability to speak your mind in a way that others hear you.

Never compromise on self-care

Confident women know that they need to take care of themselves. They value a healthy work/life balance and they take time to eat right, sleep well and to spend an occasional moment being pampered just because it feels good.

Never listen blindly

Confident women like to gather their own evidence and come to their own conclusion. They think outside-the-box, because if they don’t do their own fact-finding, they know they might not see the big picture.

Don’t try to please people

When a woman is self-assured, she does not need external approval. This allows them to be their true-selves and trust that people who like her, like her for who she truly is. She leads from her heart and has the inner-strength to handle opposition.

Don’t waste time on worrying.

Time is valuable so spending time on “what-if”, “should-have” or “could-have-been” is not useful to the confident woman. She knows that worry is like paying interest on a loan before you have been approved.

Don’t have regrets

They learn from the past and they recognize where they have made poor choices but there’s no regret. Being able to learn from the past rather than regret it oozes confident.

Aren’t afraid to get messy

Sure they know the value of a good first impression and they like to look good, but they don’t care if they are caught in a rainstorm or if they get sandy feet while walking on the beach. They find joy in the experience whether that is getting stuck in a downpour or falling in the pool.

Don’t see failures as defeats

In fact, they are the ones who can tell you how many times Henry Ford went bankrupt before he became successful (three!). They recognize that there are always bumps in the road on the path to success. The ease with which they recover allows them to keep moving forward in their determined fashion.

They don’t deny themselves

They realize that there is balance on everything. They might be on a health kick but they will gladly treat themselves to an occasional ice-cream.

They like to get to the gym, but they know the world won’t end if they skip a work out.

Confident women don’t need anyone to like them. Which is probably why everyone does!

There is nothing more annoying than someone who doesn't know all the facts forming an inappropriate or unfair  conclusion……..Your thoughts ..... ..?

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