Confessions of a Career Mom. Chapter 7: Lessons from New Beginnings.

It is soon 2 month for me and my kids in Germany, first month was dedicated fully to my family and setting up our new home. If I had to describe this experience in a single word: challenging (although, let's be honest, that doesn’t even cover it). Here’s what I’ve learned from this time of transition:

?? Biggest Shock It’s hard to put into words just how difficult it is to be in a place where you know no one, have no local network, and can’t speak the language. I’ve found myself deeply missing my friends, my familiar city, my cultural activities, and—most of all—my free time. As I prepared to start work on October 1st, I came to truly respect those who manage their households solo, with no support system. It’s exhausting, all-consuming, and I can't imagine doing this while balancing a full-time career. Unm?glich (impossible), as they say in German. But meantime, I have never spent so much time with my kids with no other interactions. It was also a unique time for us to bond.

Key Takeaway:

Switching environments, both in life and work, can bring enormous benefits. Research suggests that changing our surroundings stimulates creativity, problem-solving, and adaptability. It’s good to step out of our comfort zones, even when it’s hard. ??

?? Biggest Joy Despite the challenges, I’ve been overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity of people here. The help and support I’ve received—from friends, from you who commented on my last post with tips for life in Munich, and from neighbours at the school bus stop—has been heartwarming. This has renewed my belief that people are fundamentally good and kind.

Key Takeaway:

Never be afraid to ask for help. If you knock, doors will open, and you’ll meet wonderful, supportive people along the way. ??

?? Biggest Stress Without a doubt, my children’s well-being and the local school system have been my greatest sources of stress. Spending every day with them is both rewarding and draining. The German school system is structured and demanding, much like onboarding in a new job. I’ve realized that just because I adapt quickly, it doesn't mean my kids will. We all move at our own pace—whether we’re parents, children, or team members at work.

Key Takeaway:

Patience is key. One step at a time can lead to significant progress. As leaders (at work or at home), we’re there to support, not to take those steps for others. It is more than hard to watch my kids fail and fail again. Im here to support and I know we will succeed. Just it takes time. ??

Overall Thoughts:

While I was very excited to start my new job in beginning of October, this whole period for me has been a journey of learning and growth. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side, but trying to jump in new fields provides invaluable lessons. I’ve faced moments of feeling like I’ve failed, but I also understand that failure is where the most growth happens.

And I want to thank my dear Love, who is next to me whatever I decide to do and whatever stress level there is around me. He is an amazing support for us all during this time, and not only.

Would I do it all again, knowing how challenging it would be? Absolutely. And I am extremely excited to be the part of Audi AG team. ???

Thank you for being part of this journey! I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences with big life changes in the comments.

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