Compliment him for lasting relationship

A woman complimenting a man on something she finds attractive is super sexy without being too suggestive -- as long as she is focused.

When you give a compliment it shows that you feel self-confident enough to make someone else feel good. This not only makes the guy feel less threatened by you, but your apparent self-confidence also makes you more attractive.

Smile

It’s easy, effective and any girl can do it!

Smiling is the easiest way to flirt. It’s guaranteed to make you look a lot prettier, and you don’t have to prepare for it first. Another advantage to a smile is that it’s non-committal.

You could be flirting with him, or you could be remembering something funny that someone said to you earlier in the day. So you don’t have to be embarrassed if he doesn’t flirt back 

Give him openers for conversation

Make it easy for him to talk to you by having a few topics in mind that will get the conversation bubbling. You can talk about the venue where you’re at, the drink you’re enjoying -- just about anything that he could potentially chime in on.

A lot of guys get stuck figuring out how to start a conversation without seeming dorky or too smitten. So, if you give him an opening, he’ll feel less on the spot and appreciate the encouragement. 

Touch him

A tap on the arm to reinforce your point will do the trick. (Save his inner thigh for after you’ve gotten to know him.)

Flirtatious touching is a great indicator that you are into someone But keep it clean so he doesn’t get the wrong idea of your light affection.

Touching the arm, hair or face is ok. A brush on his chest might be ok too -- just stay above the belly!

Make eye contact -- then look away

Making eye contact and holding it just a few seconds longer than a casual glance causes him to take notice of you and start to wonder what you may have meant by that. It’s the cool ‘silent flirt’ that can make him want to know more. 

No need to wink or lick your lips (ew!). A simple glance will do.

Be expressive

Catch his eye by being the type of woman who isn’t afraid to get up and dance or stay seated and express her opinions.

Showing a man that you are bold in your feelings about life can capture his attention and make him want to get to know you. Men don’t like women who are boring, stupid or lethargic, express yourself and he’ll want to engage with you.

Flip your hair

If you’re not too obvious about it, flipping your hair is a classic sign that you’re being flirtatious. It worked in 6th grade and it will still work for you as a grown woman.

Men find the feminine aspects of your appearance irresistible and there’s nothing like the tried-and-true toss of your mane to pique his interest.

Make fun of him

Another thing to borrow from the 6th grade?

Be a little mean. Men love to be teased -- just be sure that your try at humour doesn’t come off as rude.

A well-placed barb that deflates his puffery can be effective. But, you need to be able to walk the fine line between showing him that you’re clever and not intimidated, without hurting his feelings.

Men like an intellectual challenge, but remember they have sensitive egos that bristle at too much sarcasm. 

Be an actual lady

Contrary to what you might think, you don’t need to be “one of the guys” -- in fact, be just the opposite!

While it’s great to have a ‘tomboy’ up your sleeve for the fun sporty things you may do with him later, when you’re new and just in the flirting phase, keep it sweet and simple.

Men are attracted to the feminine qualities of a woman, and will take you more seriously as a potential mate when you exhibit that. Plus, it will show him you’ll know how to act appropriately when you meet his mom!

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Thank you …If you’ve been trying to get the attention of a guy for a while, but with no success, don’t give up! When you’ve exhausted all the tricks in the book that you know of and he still won’t take any notice of you, try some of these attention grabbing tips and, whatever you do, don’t look desperate:.

Work on the wardrobe

Elegant and sophisticated is the order of the day, if you want to attract a man.

The best men appreciate femininity, but not over the top. So not too revealing, but revealing enough to get his attention is the best approach.

A change of wardrobe and a change of style might make him notice you and you could get a compliment too.

Catch his eye

Eye contact will show him that you’re interested and it will get his attention. Look a little coy about though, and don’t stare. Just catch his eye, across the room, and then look away again, and he won’t be able to ignore you for long.

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Be around when he’s around

Are you admiring him from afar? If you are, then you need to get in a bit closer, because of ‘can’t see you around’, he’s never going to notice you.

Don’t pay him too much attention, just be around when he is and, eventually, his curiosity will get the better of him and he’ll want to know more about you.

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Get His Attention Back

So the guy you like--your boyfriend, your crush, whoever--suddenly lost interest in you. He seemed to like you before, but now he's less enthusiastic, and you'd like to get his attention back without being too pushy.

This is a pretty common situation to be in. Love is a weird thing.

Our feelings for people often come in waves that rise and fall at random. You've probably experienced this yourself:

Have you ever liked someone and then suddenly, out of blue, all of your feelings went away?

Was it like the hormones just stopped flowing?

Well, put yourself in his shoes. He's probably going through something similar. It doesn't even necessarily mean that something you said or did turned him off.

The feelings could have just randomly waned on their own. The early stage of romance is a fickle place to be.

So, what do you do about it?

How do you get his attention back?

While there are no guarantees, here are some ways that you can encourage him to look your way again:

Make It Clear That You Don't Want Anything from Him

You know what turns a guy off faster than smelly breath or a bushy armpit?

The weird sense that a girl is expecting something from him or wants something from him, besides just a fun, light-heated connection.

These ulterior motives can take many forms. Make sure that you don't secretly want to take advantage of:

• His social status.
• His money.
• The fact that he's a good shoulder to cry on.
• The possibility of marriage.

Sure, it might be normal for a woman to be attracted to a man partially because of his social status and success. That's just biology. But if a part of you is scheming about how you can use these perks, he'll probably sense your social vampirism right away.

Make sure that you are interested in this guy simply because you're interested in who he is.

If you want him for anything else, he's sure to get turned off eventually--unless he's desperate himself.

Be Proactive in Spending Time with Him

To pay compliments to the one you love is the first method of caressing, a demi-audacity venturing.

Your compliment will be something like a kiss through a veil.