These Are The Common Signs God Really Want You With That Man/Woman
Chukwuebuka Abazie
Entrepreneur & Research Expert | Author & Life Coach | Transformative Leadership Strategist | Product Designer
Hey my loves, blessed day to y'all, so people been asking me to speak on How to identify a true partner from God and its so funny because I am not a relationship expert or guru.. I am still a small boy oooh!!! LOL
But, for the sake of my wonderful fans,?id be teaching you guys based off my experience through my dating life so please listen, this is the TRUTH.
So, these are the signs you have a good partner from GOD.
1. EQUALLY YOKED - This is the first and foremost reason, Just because you started off with someone doesn’t mean they are the one for you. You just have to use your discernment often and pray to God about that person also make sure that your with someone who has the same faith and beliefs as yours, there should be an equal agreement between y’all. Not the one that before you say A she/he don rap 2 verse for you, come de wait for chorus. It’s not funny oh!?This actually became one of my life lessons, I’ve actually dated a couple times and moreover I was always cheated on. People take my LOYALTY & KINDNESS as something to take advantage of. Certainly, women that I have dated have this imposed mindset that “I MAY CHEAT ON THEM” while on the other hand, I’m loyal down to earth. If I date you, I’m dating you. It may look impossible but trust me, there’s not much of my kinda man out here tho.. To me, I equally see the good in everybody and I know people make mistakes but ALL my life I am always being JUDGED before they get to know me and it’s fucked up! Lol… Now i’m woke? i learnt to see the good in myself, crushed my ego, set boundaries, forgive myself and others, started loving and appreciating every bit of my life, and putting myself first before others. Certainly any woman that has me now, definitely has everything manly and more! Cuz God made me realise I am a whole package and more.
2. OPEN COMMUNICATION - Ghan Ghan!! Where are my ladies and gees here, Omo let me tell y’all something IF on earth you are not in frequent communication with your partner either by texting or calls then I don’t know if you’re in a Relationship or?Situationship. Like how will you tell me you have a partner and y’all talk once a week? Twice in a month and you think you’re dating? OK!! We shall see!
3. YOU BOTH MAKE EACH OTHER BETTER - Yes, good relationship brings out the best in both of y’all. You’d rub his back, while he rub yours. Be ready to learn and grow together. If theres any dispute, you can trash it out and settle it perfectly without holding it in your mind. I realised that most women will on a low key be mad at their dudes and the guy man self no go even know. Mhen, I do not like such women, if a woman cannot freely tell me what i did wrong either by words or actions that hurt her, then I no de date ooo!!! Some women will wait until y’all about breaking up then they will use it against you as a point to get even angrier. That’s childish bro!!! C’mon!
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4. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS - YES!! If you love someone PROVE IT MADAM!! PROVE IT OGAAAA!! Leave this I LOVE YOU way Una de shout up and down like town crier pro max. Show actions that you love that person, make out time to see him or her, both partners should put out y’all energies to make the relationship work. Not leaving it for just one person to be running around.. LOL!!! What have I not seen in love????I’ve seen shege and waka !! But still, I still de love!!
5. THEY CONTINUE TO IMPROVE THEMSELVES TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP BETTER - Yes, I am a constant product of change and so is my partner too. We should always adapt to change frequently and learn to move in different situations of life. One thing people fear most is change. No one wants ti change, everyone wants to be the way they are. WELL, NOT FOR ME!! I’d give chances to change and if you resists, I bounce!! No stress me !!!!!
I hope you learnt something, moreover PLEASE pray to God towards your relationship because he is the only person that can give you a clear vision of that person ok??
Love you,