A Common Bond

A Common Bond

This past weekend my son came home from Ohio University for Spring Break. I know, not the most exciting choice for him I'm sure. However, we're pretty close and enjoy doing things together. One thing that we share is a love of music. I'm geeked to see how he's developed a catalog of his own that he continues to build over time.

We took a trek down to Everybody's Records just to browse and see what we could find. We were met by an overpowering aroma of incense wafting throughout the store that literally hit you in the face when you entered. They were playing some Allman Brothers overhead, and we split up. He wandered over to the rows and rows of used vinyl and I went to the used CD's racks. The place was teeming with all types of people from a variety of backgrounds, ethnicities and musical tastes. Interestingly enough though, everyone greeted each other either with a "Hi" or a head nod which acknowledged our common love for music.

I was deep into trying to secure a David Gilmour solo album from my college days and I was also looking for more Elvis Costello and possibly some Husker Du. Now, I know these may not be your choices, but I was the one shopping. My son bounced over to me with his find and I was really geeked to see what he chose - Songs in the Key of Life by Stevie Wonder !! Another store patron saw his choice and said, "Man, I wore that album out when it came out. You will love it." My son grinned from ear to ear.

This post isn't just about music, although it could be. I think it's a better reflection of how the workplace should, and could, exist. There is a constant feeling of divisiveness that seems to be swirling around everything lately. It's almost impossible to have a differing viewpoint or an observation about any topic without people demanding that you take a side. Then, once you take a side people are instantly opposing each other and holding to their camp. How is this healthy?

On top of this, if you dare to be positive about anything, there is a huge swell of emotion and negativity that wants you to be full of angst and despair. There are many great things happening in all or our lives, and I feel that when we compartmentalize and segment people because of differences we do more damage than trying to find our common bonds.

As HR professionals, we have an opportunity to bring folks together without having them forsake who they are, where they come from and what they believe. We can be the ones who intentionally step in to assess interactions and see how we can pull people together towards common goals, performance and results. It is up to us to stop people tearing each other apart. Allow for discourse and dialogue. Allow for ideas that may not seem congruent to the norm. Encourage people to bring things out into the open and see where things go.

When my son brought the epic Stevie Wonder double set to me, he asked if I'd check the vinyl for it's quality and that it didn't have any serious scratches. He asked what I thought of his choice and I told him that it was one of my favorite albums. However, I also stated that he needed to experience it himself to come up with his thoughts and opinions about this set. When we got home, he went straight to my turntable and put on Sir Duke. Epic.

This week, look for the things in your workplace that bring you together. Be the ones who look for and establish the common bonds. Here's a tune to get you started . . .



Annette (Miller) Ticoras, MD, BCPA

Private Patient Advocate & Navigator-Board Certified

8 年

Nailed it. Thanks for articulating how many of us feel. Establishing and encouraging an environment of open minded discourse and acceptance can make all the difference in the world.

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Teri Forsythe

HR Expertise | Military Veteran Coach | The Honor Foundation Volunteer | Values Driven | Fitness Enthusiast | Happily Retired | Amazing Coton de Tulear Mom

8 年

That took me right back! Thanks Steve.

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Donald I. Crews ??

Coaching Amazing People to Put Their Strengths to Work as Gallup Certified Strengths Coach / Career Coach / Speaker / Author / LinkedIn Coach

8 年

A very cool story in a very cool store (shout out to Everybody's). Great analogy, which is giving a whole "High Fidelity" vibe. Kid should be great. Watch him though. If he starts to organize and reorganize record collection by unusual system - Alphabetically by drummers middle name, seek help (think John Cussack).

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Karen Forristal - MBA, PMP?, PMI-ACP?, LSSBB, Notary

Program Management | Strategic Initiatives | Enterprise Projects | Agile Certified |???? Leading cross-functional teams on complex initiatives to deliver innovative results! ????

8 年

Nice teaser to this posting in the HR roundtable this week, Steve Browne, SHRM-SCP! #daretobepositive

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Jc Harbison

Helping business leaders fix the problems behind the problem. Life/Health Licensed

8 年

Well done! Stevie Wonder is one of my all time favorites. Great analogy

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