Commit to a Life of Mastery

When you commit to a life of mastery or continuous improvement, you embrace change. It means redirecting your time, talents, and efforts from one direction to another. However, change can be challenging unless it is fueled by purpose and a deep sense of meaning.

Napoleon Hill's quote has always resonated with me: "The discontinuance of a habit leaves a 'hole' in the mind, and this hole must be filled up with some other form of habit or the old one will return and claim its place." It emphasizes the importance of consciously choosing new habits that align with your values and purpose. Without a meaningful replacement, old habits can easily resurface.

Therefore, taking the time to deliberately choose your habits is crucial. Committing to a life of mastery requires patience with yourself as you navigate these changes.

"Choose your coping mechanism, or your body will choose one for you!" - Olivia Marolf , DevPipeline

When we align our values with the habits we choose, magic happens. Often, we aspire to live a life of meaning and purpose but struggle to define and pursue it. Some remain stuck in dreamlike states without taking action, while others are trapped in indecision. How can we break free? Where do we begin?

Here are some suggestions:

1. Identify the 3-5 values that matter most to you. Make them visible and reflect on them daily. Be open to revising them as needed. For example, my current values are family, faith, hope, gratitude, and abundance.

2. Determine 2-3 habits that align with these values. It could be committing to working out four times a week, dedicating 30 minutes each morning to reading teachings that inspire you, or having meaningful one-on-one conversations with your children. Choose habits that genuinely reflect your values and write them down. Start taking action and adjust as necessary.

3. Allow yourself to dream. Envision your ideal end result. Describe what you wish to accomplish and the life you want to lead. Write it down and review it regularly. Assess whether your habits are propelling you closer to your vision. Ensure that your dreams align with your values and that they are in harmony.

If you desire a purpose-driven life, seek alignment. Aligning your daily goals and habits with your values enables meaning and purpose to accompany you on your journey.

I extend my gratitude to Greg McKeown and Dr Rangan Chatterjee for their inspiring work, which has helped me focus on what truly matters and live a happier, healthier life.