Combat loneliness by building self-esteem: here’s how! ??
Selena Rezvani (she/her)
Speaker: Leadership & Self-Advocacy | WSJ Bestselling Author of Quick Confidence | TED-Xer | Fast Co Top Career Creator | Thinkers50 Radar Awardee | Rated by Forbes "the premier expert on advocating for yourself at work"
Welcome to Quick Confidence! This weekly letter delivers a spritz of stories, tips and simple actions that will build your confidence and your power. Each quick tip bolsters confidence in your body, mind, and relationships so you can lead yourself and others to greatness.?
There’s a difference between being alone and being lonely.
Being alone can be a wonderful thing! Think about that blissful state you experience when you finally get an evening to yourself without the demands of the outside world.?
Just you. Being you. Doing you…That kind of alone can feel awesome.?
Loneliness, on the other hand, doesn’t feel so hot. It can leave you feeling empty, "far away," and even doubting your self-worth.?
The emotion can be just as overwhelming in a room full of people when you don't feel like you belong as it does when you’re having dinner at home with your partner and they’re distant or distracted. And it can certainly strike when you’ve been holed up in your house for too long without enough human contact. I can relate to that last one 1,000%!
To be clear, there’s nothing inherently wrong with feeling loneliness. It’s a normal part of the human experience and something we all encounter from time to time. Feeling lonely doesn’t always have a rhyme or reason, and it doesn’t always make sense to us or others.
It’s when loneliness becomes chronic that it can develop into an issue. A full 3 in 5 American adults feel lonely, which is strongly linked to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. And, oftentimes, we do things that might be considered unhealthy to make ourselves feel a little bit less lonely – maybe we stay up way too late watching TV, eat or drink to excess – or we wind up in codependent relationship after codependent relationship.?
But you needn’t drown in your feelings of loneliness. There are effective and proven ways to overcome them, and it starts with: Identifying what you need and building the confidence to act on it.?
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This is the first steps to boosting your self-esteem and improving your ability to connect with others in a meaningful and healthy way.?
Today’s Quick Confidence tips are dedicated to building confidence, so you can feel less lonely!
Quick Confidence Tips to Feel Less Lonely:
Have you overcome your own cycle of loneliness? I would love to hear about how you’re coping with these feelings. Drop a comment below if you could use some encouragement from our community. Remember – here, you are never alone!????
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Program Manager || Scrum Master Lead SAFE Certified Practitioner SAFe POPM CSM ISTQB CPBA
2 年Great words, indeed.
Principal Consultant (Founder and President) at Performance GXP Consulting Services - Professional Influencer - Motivational Speaker
2 年It pretty much ALL starts with good self esteem - so important - thanks for the reminder Selena…
Actor/Writer
2 年You are awesome ????
R&D Operations Co-Ordinator at Version1
2 年I can relate to this 1000%. Although I'm an extrovert by nature, I end up being silent when there should be more talks. Loneliness is a silent killer. I'm so glad this is being discussed here and I send out love to all those who feel the same. Much Love to All you guys who feel Lonely.
Logistics Project Lead at Novelis
2 年The interpersonal and mindset parts are really helpful for people who are struggling after the pandemic. I think the first step is, of course, acknowledging/reflecting that you are cutting off too much.