Coaching Chronicles # 2: Arnold's Awakening...
Prelude
- Here are Questions that were used in a Coaching journey with Arnold (name changed).
- Arnold is a senior corporate executive - in the Technology sector.
- Despite his corporeal success, Arnold has been feeling Unfulfilled. He often complains of Inertia in his life.
- For 6 years now, he has been 'seeking' a transformation. Our Coaching Journey helped Arnold to discover, and then live out of, an upgraded version of himself.
- These Questions, aided in the process and were interspersed throughout the Coaching Journey.
Full Disclosure & Usage
- Credit to Anthony Robbins. Much of the inspiration behind the phrasing of these Questions is from his work & tools. Thank You Anthony Robbins!
- If you are seeking to Discover & Enhance Yourself, read each question out loud and contemplate a response. Speak and then Write in as much detail as you can.
- Take time with each question. Perhaps address just a few each day. Flow with it, allow the responses to come from a place of calm.
- Most times, a client is able to derive enough value from answering just a hand full of these.
Creating The New You!
Begin...
- If you were creating the New You, how would you want that New You to be?
- What about that New You do you admire?
- What's one thing about that New You that you could emulate right now?
- How does it feel when you emulate it, right now?
- What's one more thing that you could emulate?
- How would you emulate these two things tomorrow, and enjoy doing it?
Believe...
- What does the New You believe?
- What are his Beliefs?
- What does he look like? Describe it please
- What does he sound like?
- Make a sound, the sound that he sounds like?
- What does he feel in his body?
- Where in his body does he feel it? Show me where.
- What does he eat?
- What perfume does he wear? What does that smell like? Describe that smell
- What does he do first thing when he wakes?
- How does he talk to his wife?
Become...
- How does he scope the market for opportunities?
- How does he prepare for his next interview?
- What emotion does he go into the interview with? Describe and Feel that emotion now.. how does that feel? to feel that emotion?
- What Emotion does he feel mostly?
- How does it feel to feel that emotion?
Blossom...
- What is the New You proud of?
- What else is he proud of?
- How does it feel when you feel his pride?
- What is the New You excited about?
- What else is he excited about?
- Go ahead and participate in his excitement..
- How do feel when you participate in his excitement?
- What is the New You grateful for?
- What else is he Grateful for?
- If he were to be overwhelmed with Gratitude, how would he feel & how would you feel?
- What's the look on his face, when he is inundated with Gratitude? Make that look now.
- What sound does he make, the sound that represents Gratitude to him? Make that sound now!
- What does he do with his body when he feels Gratitude?
- Go ahead and do his look, his sound, & his body.., Now...
(Arjun Aiyar is a 'Life & Abundance' Coach, Psychotherapist, Motivational Speaker, Corporate Trainer and Entrepreneur. He owns a Management Consulting firm, and lives in Dubai. He adds value to Corporates, Leaders & Entrepreneurs across the globe. Arjun also works with Individuals, Couples and Families - helping them to resolve deep Emotional Issues and achieve Peace of Mind. He can he reached at www.stepupuae.com)
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5 年Quite interesting article, Arjun, but perhaps there are too many questions and when the mind is clouded and there is unclarity about what to do, these many questions can do no good. What do you think??