Cluttered

Now, I know that even the title of this blog may make some people squirm. I want to challenge that notion if only to offer a different perspective. As I'm writing this post, I am surrounded by a stack of books I intend to read, various notebooks all dedicated to different areas of work, a stack of crumpled flip chart pages, two sets of markers, two tote bags, and two backpacks. I have a playlist with the soundtrack of the alternative Netflix series, The Umbrella Academy, on shuffle and I'm watering our trees to thwart the drought we're facing. This is normal and comforting . . . for me.

Please note that I'm not touting that my method of approaching life is what others should do. As mentioned earlier, any semblance of this type of manner of walking through life unsettles far more people than those who concur. I have no recollection of ever not having this as my standard style. I don't want to venture into if my brain is wired in a certain way or another. I don't feel it's fair to project or label how anyone moves through their daily lives. When I find people do this, it's not comparative, it's judgemental. There's a right and a wrong.

I believe there just . . . is. That may be far too existential for some. However, when I look at the world and the people around me I see variety, diversity, and uniqueness. I try my best not to squelch or confine anyone else. I don't particularly agree with how others maneuver through work and life, but only because I know it won't work for me. If you visited me at my office, you'd see this pattern of being cluttered lived out. To me, it's a very natural environment that offers endless stimulation and movement. It's a snapshot of how the world appears in my head daily.

One day a former executive came to my office and was mortified. He looked at everything stacked, teetering and threatening to topple at any moment. His countenance dropped and he was immediately judgemental because my setting ran completely counter to how he did life. That was true of his dress, his communication, and his leadership style. Instead of trying to understand my beautiful mess, he challenged me because he wanted to show me how wrong I was to work like I do.

"This is something," he retorted.

"Is there something you need or I can help you with?" I replied.

"Do you even know where anything is? I mean (dramatic pause) LOOK at this place !!" he exclaimed. His voice was raised and he started to turn red. I didn't understand why this was a confrontation, but I remained unphased.

"What would you like me to get? Glad to help you." I said this with a bit of a twist and a hint of sarcasm and he felt it.

"Well, um, where is the project list we're working on for the Strategic Plan?" he stammered.

I reached into the middle of a stack while steadying it with my other hand. "This list?" It was exactly what he was asking for. I said, "This isn't luck or a magic trick. It's how I think. I know this isn't how you like to approach work and I respect that. I ask you to do the same."

Needless to say, he was not happy. I didn't want that to happen, but I also felt he should be more open-minded to different perspectives. We all say we're comfortable with those who are different than us, but that's not really true. If we were honest, we consider different - wrong. It isn't. It's just different.

This week take a look around and take in the array of the people you work with and see how each one is unique. They're all amazing because of their differences. Some will be organized and others will be cluttered. Some will think linearly and others don't even know what a line looks like because they see countless versions of ever-changing intersections.

Let's see how all of those differences make us better. I need to get back to my stacks . . .