If Clueless, choose randomness (unlikely solution)

Whenever I had a problem, I did the same as everybody does.??

??Blame somebody,? dumping responsibility.

I wanted to be an astronaut, didn’t like science but that was what I studied, blamed my father for it.?

So growing up, I liked many subjects which I did not study in depth. Therefore, when I spoke about those subjects, I spoke what I knew.?

It seemed that I always presented with some aspect, which nobody had thought of.? For example, two Europeans travelled by India, a century apart from each other, but only the later could find a sea route to India, while the former travelled more distance.??

Why so?? According to me, the former wanted silk, and the later wanted spices.

?? You are assigned different destiny according to your choice.??

So obvious, but I get immersed in thoughts about what if those explorers had their choices exchanged?

I was not very appreciated except for a circle that was curious rather than very studious.??

The world continues to be the same to this day for me. I continue to be clueless about why peo Later on, I found this trait to tell bedtime stories to my daughters. They have grown up being very intrigued people about many things in life.

Not very studious, but doing well in life. My daughters.

?? Life can be very beautiful despite being average as a student, specialising in nothing.

I? have been clueless to people’s attitude most of my life, though. But I could not help myself thinking differently, ‘weird’ to most people.

Perhaps because of that, Problem solving, and resourcefulness is what has been my forte, and I love taking people out of the soup with just a tweak.?

Moreover,? I have seen that anybody can be a master problem solver if they rob a bit of my ‘weirdness’, on them.

But for the same reason, I get very few people to trust on me. Only the very ‘helpless’ come to me, because nobody can provide them with a solution pertaining to their situation.

Think for a moment, how did you solve a problem in your life when you solved it?? Did it take years or did it take a just a moment?

Whenever you were proactive, it was solved in a second. You find it resolved, because you know when and how the problem is going to end and you have a clue about it.

The problem might take time to get resolved.?

Take the example of having a problem with your boss. Are you inside the problem or outside of it?

You are inside the problem, till you feel clueless, angry and afraid.

The moment you are out of it, you accept your part, and think solution.? No more your are thinking of the anger of the boss, because the moment you are face to face with him, you are talking solution; not discussing the problem.

Therefore, you are not reacting to any negative emotions being expressed by him, you are just in enthusiasm to move on.

But here you have a choice.? You can carry the anger forever. You are doing what he says, but you are not accepting. You become mechanical.? And also your mind is weaving the problem in various other ways as well.

Which choice would you take??

??The alternative scenario

What was that you learn as soon as that problem you had with the boss?? What was your part in it??

Was it something which you should not repeat?

Well, it is easier said than done. However,? if you know your goal, this is a tiny incident. A piece of learning opportunity, at the most.

If you are reading this, and getting angry, then you haven’t yet seen the huge benefit you stand to gain.

But if you are smiling, you have experienced the grandeur of taking your mind to random situations away from the negativity.

?? Here is the randomness I am talking about.

Unlikely situations.

Because for the same problem, the solution can be different, and unusual, if the person is different.?

Or the Same person at different age.

Confused?

Well,? it is simple, if you believe in the ??open loops ?? that life comes up with.

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You need to be the person deserving the solution.?

It would take some amount of surrender from the student.? The willingness to become somebody better.

?? How do you know I have the authority?

I have trained 18000 professionals to achieve unbelievable results so far.? You need to come to my webinar to know about that.

I had started small. I never had those audacious goals, but I had an honest determination, who also believes in blessings.

And I have been given.

This is a new aspect of existence I have discovered.?

I feel bathed in blessings whenever I am given.? I was assigned a coach who understands my peculiarity.

That was huge.??

Furthermore,I have been introvert for most of my life.

I ‘wrote’ powerful arguments? in articles but never could muster courage to be on stage for a debate,? lack ‘public-speaking’.?

Still,? my coach pronounced me as ‘coach material’.And in less than 6 months, he was instrumental in producing my first video,? and believe it not,? I have 500+ videos and 187 podcasts, in the last 1.5 years.

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?? Counting on further guidance

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He showed me the photograph attached here about 6 months back. If I am to teach somebody properly, then I have to be the queen at the altar.

He showed the same again yesterday.

He has given me the qualifier.? The trick can only be taught to the student who is willing to climb the altar of gracefulness.?

Not to just anybody!?

That gave me a comfort level.? I transfer the experience only to those who qualify.?

Here I am, enjoying and I love being random; solve a problem like any problem.? It does not have to be subject-specific; it is the way you approach the problem is where lies the solution.?

?? Time for you to qualify

If you? are facing any of the following problems on which to? know more about this process..

Thinking of changing a job?

Looking for a new growth opportunity?

Want to be recognized?

Win trust of everybody?

Socially respected?

Influence the senior management?

Winning over the boss?

Resolve conflicts in a minute?

Become happy and blissful?

Earn better ?

Then

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