Club News & Magazine Update - Valentine's Month
Jean Macdonald
I have created the Midlife Butterfly Club as a Community to support and guide women going their midlife transition with the help of those who care for them.
Valentines Month
It’s February and another month of dull dreary weather in the UK with the one relieving event of Valentine’s Day. This is an exciting event for some women and quite the opposite for many others. Those of us without a loving intimate partner can feel particularly lonely and neglected at this time. The Butterfly Club aims to help those midlife women understand and deal with this situation proactively so that they can have a better Valentine’s Day now and in the future.
We are issuing a series of seven short videos I made under the title - Why You May Not Be Getting the Love You Deserve -?and it?consists of advice for midlife women looking for a new partner or looking to transform the one they are with now. It is based on a video called - Seven Mistakes Midlife Women often make when seeking their Ideal Partner. All these videos and accompanying tips will be available in the Magazine in the coming month. I know you will find them enlightening even if you are happy with your current intimate relationship.
Love Jean
What’s in the Magazine now
Mealtime?Myths?and?Modern?Life
Once we grow up, and make our own decisions about what we eat, we rarely choose these ‘good for us’ foods. Once we stop having people telling us what to eat, we tend to develop a taste for obviously ‘bad for us’ foods and other ‘bad for us’ things. We advocate balance rather than deprivation. Learn how in this article https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/mealtime-myths-and-modern-life/
If Good Looks Were Everything
This self-doubt particularly afflicts women who have lost their previous partner, or who would like to do so. Their thought is ‘How can I compete with these younger women who have all the attributes of youth and beauty?’ https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/if-good-looks-were-everything-4/
Are you in the right job?
The advice from teachers and parents to their children used?to be - ‘Work?hard to get a?good?education and then get a?good?job, then?work?hard and wait for your pension’ If it was ever true, it certainly isn’t now. https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/are-you-in-the-right-job/
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Policies?for?Sane?Parents MEMBERS ONLY
Parents, like governments, benefit from having clear?policies?to create a happy and structured family environment. Setting boundaries, negotiating fairly, and discussing calmly are key to fostering mutual respect.? https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/policies-for-sane-parents/
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What’s Coming up
Keeping the Love Alive
Falling in love is easy, but keeping a relationship strong takes effort, including good communication, self-discipline, and understanding the different stages of love. The article talks about three types of love—Romantic, Working, and Mature—and the challenges that come up with each.??
Why you may not be getting the Love You Desire No.1
In this first video of my series on finding and keeping love in middle life, I explore the key reasons why many struggle to attract or maintain the love they truly want. The insights are as relevant today as?I created this series for Valentine’s Day.
Internet Dating of Midlife Women: Embracing a New Chapter
Online dating offers midlife women new possibilities for companionship, yet the experience can often feel frustrating and disheartening. This post explores the challenges of internet dating and provides practical strategies to help women approach it with confidence and success.
What’s Wrong with the Missionary Position? (MEMBERS ONLY)
The missionary position is often seen as traditional, yet it may not provide the deep connection or excitement many desire. This post explores why it can feel uninspiring and how emotional intimacy can transform sexual satisfaction.
We want to hear from you, our readers. Do you like the articles we put in the magazine. Are there some you want more of, or less of??Please email the editor at ?[email protected] Keep coming back to the Magazine regularly, if you don’t want to miss out. All the articles, videos and audio tracks are only available for a limited time. https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/magazine