Clarity - the Bridge to Success
Esther Apoussidis
Guiding women with a powerful calling to move from stagnation to positive manifestation through energy and abundance alignment coaching | Empowerment & Wellbeing Speaker | Bestseller Writer
We all have a big, overarching desire. Essentially this is a burning need to express our ourselves fully: to utilise our gifts in a way that uplifts us and lovingly serves others. During this process we hope to experience a state of happiness, abundance and fulfilment. The biggest hurdle to our own fulfilment and success is generally lack of clarity on how this can be achieved.
What I've learnt is that, in the pursuit of wealth, happiness and success, we forget that this state of being abundant, successful and happy is always present in us and that it is not a case of working harder or trying to fix this or that problem in our lives. Society and the world of education, commerce and social media want us to believe otherwise. In that riches and rewards are only available to us if we have the determination to succeed and the right tools and strategies in place to move towards our goals.
However, busy, determined thoughts and actions can actually be detrimental and counterproductive. When the mind is busy calculating, strategising and scheming, it doesn't have the space or calmness to receive intuitive "downloads". It blocks out connection to our heart's energy, our centre of emotional intelligence. For it is in our feelings that we energetically create the orientation and pathway to our dreams and desires (check out my recent free masterclass on Believe in your Success , which elaborates on this point and the role of the subconscious mind in aiding our goal completion).
I used believe that I wasn't that intuitive or spiritual. But actually we all have intuitive abilities - this is part of our energetic DNA. We are spiritual beings with an intellectual mind in a physical, feeling, neurological body. We are all part of a unified field of energy and we are all able to tap into an omniscient and omnipresent source of Universal energy that guides and supports us in expressing our full potential and which actively works to co-create conditions to achieve our desires. An incredible book by Lynne McTaggart entitled The Field thoroughly researched this topic of the quantum field of energy and how we are all psychic and intuitively connected. Working in a society and in a corporate world, where the primary focus is on non-spiritual development, tends to switch off this spiritual setting in us. But it doesn't mean to say it's not there. It's just turned down so low we can't hear, feel or tap into it.
Moreover, a busy mind and any resulting "forced" or "contrived" action create an energy of push and resistance. It's pretty much akin to being in a car, rushing to get somewhere and in this energy we experience roadblocks, red traffic lights and congestion. This also happens in business. If we try and force a pace and contrive an outcome, the result is usually negative or the energy backfires on us. Just being able to observe this and be aware when this happens, is enough to change the approach, i.e. apply a different "in-flow" energy.
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When we start using and honing our intuition and allow ourselves to be guided and supported in a state of flow and ease, taking "inspired" (in Spirit) action in the direction of our spiritual and material goals, we can experience incredible synchronicities in our life. I'm now a total believer, because synchronicities happen all the time in my life ever since I opened myself up to the energy of flow, sense of allowing and unfolding, sense of expectation and trust that all is in hand to create my dreams and desires. However, it is an energy practice that requires commitment and staying power, for we have a whole lot of mental conditioning to contend with that can derail us.
Thus, another major block to gaining clarity of self-expression and moving into the energy of abundance, success and wellbeing is that we are victims of a deluded mind: a mind that sees only lack, limitation and creates an energy of fear around that. This fear tends to blindside us and put a stranglehold on our intentions and actions. It may seem harsh to accept that we are experiencing a delusion of lack and failure, especially when our 5 senses want to show us contrary evidence. For it is important to recognise that all current realities and experiences are first created in the mind, whether we fully understand this concept or not. Therefore, we always have a choice in what we choose to think, believe and experience in our physical reality. We can choose to create from a mind of fear, lack and limitation, or from a mind of plenty, powerful belief in success and happiness.
And that leads me on to the final point: the need for absolute faith and trust in our innate powers of creation to create a life we love: of fullest self-expression, of requited love, abundance, health, joy and happiness.
If you have a desire to create more good and abundance in your life, but lack the clarity on how this can be made possible, then I'd recommend the Empowered to Rise programme. It's an intensive self-development journey, that transforms your inner world to create positive outer world change. It explores your energy, releases you from any limitations, such as lack of confidence, clarity and self-belief and fear of moving forward. It raises your vibrational frequency, helps you tap into and expand your intuition as well as creates a synchronistic, truly aligned, high energy pathway to manifesting your truest and deepest desires.