The Circle of Life: A Journey of Love, Loss, and the Unknown

From the moment a baby enters this world, a delicate dance begins—a journey through circles that define our lives. At birth, a newborn knows little of the world, finding comfort only in the familiar touch and scent of the mother, the warmth of the father, and the closeness of family. These first connections form the smallest circle of existence, a sanctuary where love is unconditional and trust is instinctive.

As the child grows, so does the circle. Siblings become playmates, though the concept of family ties might still be beyond comprehension. Friends are made, and the circle of likes and dislikes begins to expand. The world starts to take shape as the child steps into the realms of education, forming bonds with peers and teachers, and discovering new passions and interests. The circle widens, encompassing more people, more ideas, and more experiences.

Then comes the teenage years, a time of intense discovery and emotion. The world becomes more complex, and the heart begins to explore the concept of love. This might not yet be the profound, lasting love that comes later in life, but it is real and powerful in its own way. The circle continues to expand, now filled with dreams, aspirations, and sometimes heartache.

As the young person enters adulthood, the circle of life becomes increasingly intricate. Career choices, personal goals, and societal expectations shape priorities, and the circle is no longer just about likes and dislikes; it’s about responsibilities, ambitions, and the future. Love deepens, and relationships grow more meaningful. Eventually, the circle might include a partner, children, and a new family of one's own. This circle, while vast, also begins to experience loss. Loved ones pass away, leaving behind memories and an unfillable void. Where do they go? What becomes of them? These are questions that linger, unanswered, as life continues its relentless march forward.

Some people call this the "circle of life and death." It’s a concept that has been explored by philosophers, theologians, and thinkers throughout history. The idea that after death there is life again, perhaps in another form, is comforting to many. Yet, no one truly knows what happens when we pass from this world. What do the departed see? How do they feel? Are they at peace? These mysteries remain, perhaps forever beyond our understanding.

In the midst of these circles—of life, love, loss, and death—one might wonder: if there is a divine being, why has such a complex system been put in place? Why are we given these circles of attachment, of likes and dislikes, of priorities, when nothing in this world is permanent? Everything new today becomes old tomorrow, every towering structure eventually crumbles, and what is extraordinary now will be commonplace in the future.

Perhaps the answer lies not in the permanence of these circles, but in the experiences they offer us. Life is a series of moments, each precious in its own right. The connections we form, the love we give and receive, the lessons we learn—all contribute to the rich tapestry of our existence. Even though these circles may break, expand, or disappear, they are the essence of what it means to live.

In the end, it is not for us to fully understand the purpose of these circles. Maybe they are not meant to be understood, but simply to be experienced. The beauty of life may lie in its impermanence, in the fleeting nature of every moment, every connection. And so, we continue on our journey, moving from one circle to the next, creating memories, forming bonds, and living in the mystery of it all.