Choosing Growth, Leadership, and a Brighter Path For the Future
Welcome to a new week—and a particularly meaningful one. Today’s newsletter is packed with insights on creating thriving workplaces, approaching positivity authentically, and how this week’s election has a direct impact on the values we stand for as leaders. I’ll share a brief endorsement a bit later, as it feels essential to acknowledge how the choices we make reflect the environments we want to build, both professionally and personally.
Time Change: Falling Back to a Better Rhythm
First up, let’s talk about the time change. I didn’t give anyone the heads-up to prepare, so if you felt caught off guard by “falling back,” you’re not alone. But, honestly, I’m glad to be back in standard time. Daylight Saving Time (DST) has its proponents, but all the research says that standard time is better for us, from a health and rhythm perspective. Here in Tulsa, the delay to 8 a.m. sunrise had been creeping up on us, and without the time change, we’d soon be facing 9 a.m. sunrises. That’s a significant misalignment with our natural circadian rhythms, which depend on morning light to regulate mood, energy, and overall health.
Research strongly favors standard time over DST for reasons that go beyond sleep. When we’re aligned with natural light cycles, our biological clocks function better. Standard time supports quality sleep, balanced metabolism, and mental clarity—whereas DST has been linked to everything from cardiovascular events and mood issues to increased accident rates. So, while shifting back throws us temporarily off balance, it’s a change that sets us up better in the long run.
Staying Calm in the Face of Sunday’s Storm
As if the time change weren’t enough, we also had a vivid reminder of unpredictability early Sunday morning with a tornado watch, sirens blaring, and severe winds that jolted us awake. It was one of those 4 a.m. wake-up calls you don’t expect, and our day started in that unsettling limbo of checking on family safety, bracing for flickering power, and waiting out the storm. While we’re all safe, I know there was damage in other areas, and I hope everyone affected is on the path to recovery. It’s times like these that reinforce the importance of staying prepared, calm, and resilient—even in the face of unexpected chaos. As leaders, we face “storms” of our own at times, and handling them with steadiness and care is what gets us and those we lead through safely.
New Series Starting This Week: Thriving Workplaces and Toxic Positivity
On that note, we’re diving into two new content series this week: Thriving Workplaces and Toxic Positivity. Thriving Workplaces, inspired by the 2025 Global Culture Report from O.C. Tanner, is a four-week exploration of what it takes to build environments where employees aren’t just surviving but thriving. This week’s focus is on “Generative Care”—a concept that goes beyond perks and benefits to address holistic well-being. We’re talking about mental health, financial stability, career growth, and building a workplace culture that genuinely supports people at every level.
Meanwhile, our three-week series on Toxic Positivity will explore the fine line between supportive encouragement and dismissive “good vibes only” culture. This week, we’ll unpack the misunderstandings around toxic positivity and the real benefits of positive psychology that respects the full range of human emotions. Both series are about creating environments where people can bring their authentic selves to the table and grow in meaningful ways, and I’m looking forward to the conversations that’ll unfold around these themes.
Tonight’s Tulsa Agile Practitioners Meetup: Lego Serious Play
And if you’re in Tulsa, join me tonight for our November Tulsa Agile Practitioners Meetup! We’ll be hosting a Lego Serious Play workshop—a hands-on approach to creativity, problem-solving, and collaboration that is as fun as it is impactful. Lego Serious Play has roots in research on “productive playfulness” and its benefits for strategic thinking and innovation. Engaging in play helps us unlock creativity, enhances cognitive flexibility, and deepens team communication in ways that standard brainstorming sessions simply can’t achieve. I’m excited to dive into this with the group and see what new ideas and connections emerge.
Now, with those updates in place, let’s talk about the upcoming election and what’s at stake for us as leaders.
My Endorsement for President: Kamala Harris
This week’s election is not just a political event; it’s a test of our values, our vision for the future, and our belief in what leadership should stand for. Normally, I’d encourage everyone to vote, regardless of political preference. But this year feels different, and I’m going to speak plainly about where I stand.
I’m endorsing Kamala Harris and Tim Walz. I believe that Harris and Walz represent the qualities we should expect in leadership: integrity, empathy, respect for democracy, and a dedication to protecting the freedoms and rights we hold dear. They are not perfect—no leader or administration is—but they demonstrate a commitment to our country’s foundational principles, to a vision that includes everyone, and to real, evidence-based policies for a sustainable future. Their leadership represents the strength and compassion we need in this deeply polarized time.
On the other hand, Donald Trump is, in my view, everything leadership shouldn’t be. His track record speaks for itself: divisive, dishonest, and self-serving. From inciting violence and encouraging hateful rhetoric to undermining trust in our institutions, he has repeatedly shown that his only priority is himself. I genuinely believe that another term for Trump would be catastrophic for our democratic values, for our economy, for our environment, and for the progress we’ve fought to make toward equality, respect, and freedom.
If you’re still undecided and find yourself leaning toward Trump, I’ll be blunt: perhaps this isn’t the election to cast a ballot. Democracy depends on informed and thoughtful participation, not reactionary voting. If you’re unsure about upholding the Constitution and supporting a country that protects the rights and dignity of all its people, then maybe it’s better to sit this one out.
This election, let’s make a choice that reflects who we want to be as a nation, the values we want to pass down, and the kind of leadership we want to champion. I’m voting for Harris and Walz because I believe in an America that prioritizes integrity, compassion, and wisdom over spectacle and self-interest. If you believe in these values too, I urge you to consider doing the same.
Start of Thriving Workplaces Series: Unpacking Insights from the 2025 Global Culture Report
This week, we begin Thriving Workplaces, a four-week series inspired by the 2025 Global Culture Report by O.C. Tanner. The report dives into the latest strategies for moving workplaces from survival mode to genuine thriving, and over the next month, we’ll be exploring core themes like mental health, recognition, and the future of workplace culture.
For leaders, this series is an opportunity to gain actionable insights on creating a supportive and sustainable environment where people can do their best work. Whether you’re a seasoned executive or a developing leader, these insights equip you to build a culture where employees aren’t just “making it” but are actually engaged, growing, and satisfied in their roles.
Week 1: Generative Care and Total Rewards
Our focus this week is on “Generative Care”—an approach to employee well-being that’s more than just a set of benefits. Generative Care means creating a workplace that prioritizes the holistic needs of employees, from financial security and mental health to career growth. It’s about transforming the workplace into a place where people feel valued and supported in all aspects of their lives.
This week, we’ll explore how a well-rounded Total Rewards strategy can close the gap between employee needs and company offerings. With Generative Care, benefits go beyond transactional perks to foster real connection and well-being, setting the foundation for an engaged and loyal workforce.
Daily Topics Preview
Here’s a look at what we’ll cover each day this week:
This series is about actionable change and sustainable growth—two things we all strive for as leaders. Stay tuned for each post as we unpack what it takes to create a culture where employees can perform at their best.
New Series - Authentic Positivity: Beyond the Toxic Trap
This week, we’re kicking off Authentic Positivity: Beyond the Toxic Trap, a three-week series on the concept of toxic positivity. This is a topic close to my heart, as I often see how toxic positivity can undermine the real benefits of positive psychology and Positive Intelligence. Toxic positivity dismisses the full spectrum of human emotions, reducing complex experiences to empty phrases like “good vibes only.” It’s easy to see why this can lead to misunderstandings—both from those who think all positivity is shallow or forced and from those who, with good intentions, end up promoting harmful positivity.
Positive psychology and Positive Intelligence (PQ) are different. They don’t deny or suppress difficult emotions; instead, they help us navigate challenges in a constructive way. As someone who subscribes to these authentic approaches, I want to help leaders recognize the difference. Positive psychology doesn’t ask us to ignore hardships but to learn from them, fostering resilience and growth. Over the next three weeks, we’ll unpack how to embrace positivity without crossing into toxic territory and look at the powerful impact of real, balanced positivity.
Week 1: Demystifying Toxic Positivity
Our focus this week is on understanding what toxic positivity really is—and why it’s often mistaken for positive psychology. Toxic positivity shows up in subtle ways: in well-meaning phrases that unintentionally dismiss real feelings, in the “good vibes only” culture, and in advice that pressures people to “just stay positive” without acknowledging their full experience. This week, we’ll help you identify when positivity becomes harmful, providing a clearer picture of how authentic positive approaches like Positive Intelligence go beyond surface-level optimism.
Daily Topics Preview
Here’s what we’ll be covering each day to help us demystify toxic positivity:
This series will help us look at positivity through a more nuanced lens, equipping us with the tools to support real resilience and well-being in ourselves and those we lead. Stay tuned each day as we dive deeper into what authentic positivity looks like and how to foster it effectively in our lives and work.
Looking Forward
As we step into this pivotal week, let’s keep in mind that authentic leadership is about more than strategy or execution; it’s about leading with values, standing for integrity, and fostering environments where everyone can grow and contribute meaningfully. This week’s election is a powerful reminder of those principles—our choices don’t just reflect our individual beliefs, but they shape the kind of country and workplaces we all want to be part of.
For those of you building and leading teams, think about how you might bring Generative Care into your organization—not only as a policy but as a commitment to nurturing resilience, well-being, and loyalty. If you’re reflecting on positivity in your own life, challenge yourself to embrace the full range of emotions, using them as pathways to growth rather than obstacles. And for everyone casting a ballot, remember that voting is an expression of those values. Voting for leaders who embody integrity, respect for democracy, and a vision that includes everyone is an investment in the future we want to create, both in our communities and in our workplaces.
Take this week as an opportunity to connect, reflect, and lead with purpose. I’m looking forward to diving deeper into these topics with each of you in the coming days, and I encourage you to engage, share your perspectives, and ask questions as we explore together.
Here’s to a meaningful week of growth, courage, and clarity. Stay engaged, stay resilient, and keep leading with purpose.
Together for a Brighter Future,