Choosing Not to Get Offended
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Choosing Not to Get Offended

It's no secret that we live in a world that seems increasingly polarized and divided. From heated debates over mask mandates to the ongoing battles over election results, it can feel like every issue has become a battleground where winning is the only goal. And as Christians, we're not immune to this temptation to take sides and dig in, convinced that our position is the only righteous one.

But here's the thing: the enemy of our souls is well aware of our propensity for offense, and he's more than happy to use it against us. As the reference article described, the devil's goal isn't necessarily to make us devil worshippers or addicts - it's to get us offended. Because when we're consumed by our sense of being wronged, it becomes increasingly difficult for us to think about anything else.

The Cost of Offense

When we allow ourselves to be defined by our outrage, the consequences can be far-reaching. For one, it becomes nearly impossible for us to engage in meaningful dialogue with those who hold different views. Instead of seeking to understand, we lash out, convinced that our opponents are not just wrong, but morally bankrupt. This not only damages our relationships, but it also makes it harder for us to be effective witnesses for Christ.

Moreover, our offense can have a ripple effect that extends beyond our personal circles. As the reference article pointed out, during the tumultuous political season a few years ago, many Christians did not exactly "make the gospel look very good" with our harsh rhetoric and uncompromising stances. Instead of drawing people to the transformative power of Jesus, we pushed them away, reinforcing the perception that the church is more concerned with winning arguments than with loving our neighbors.

Choosing a Better Way

But it doesn't have to be this way. As followers of Christ, we have been called to a higher standard - one that prioritizes grace, humility, and a commitment to unity in the midst of our differences. Instead of allowing ourselves to be trapped by our own offense, we can choose to respond with wisdom, empathy, and a willingness to listen.

This doesn't mean that we should simply ignore the important issues of our day or that we should never take a stand. As Christians, we have a responsibility to engage with the world around us and to speak up for what we believe is right. But we can do so in a way that honors God and brings people together, rather than driving them apart.

Practical Strategies for Navigating Politics and Faith

So, what does this look like in practice? Here are a few strategies to consider:

  1. Cultivate a spirit of humility: Recognize that none of us have a monopoly on the truth, and that even our most deeply held convictions may be flawed or incomplete. Approach political and social issues with a posture of learning and growth, rather than one of certainty and condemnation.

  1. Practice active listening: When engaging with those who hold different views, resist the urge to immediately formulate your rebuttal. Instead, make a conscious effort to truly understand where the other person is coming from, and seek to find common ground.

  1. Prioritize relationships over ideologies: Remember that the people on the "other side" are not your enemies - they are fellow image-bearers of God, and they are often motivated by a sincere desire to make the world a better place. Invest in building bridges, even when it's difficult.

  1. Seek wisdom from trusted sources: In a world of information overload, it can be challenging to know where to turn for reliable, balanced perspectives. Seek out Christian leaders and thinkers who have a track record of thoughtful, nuanced engagement with complex issues.

  1. Pray for discernment and grace: Ultimately, our ability to navigate the treacherous waters of politics and faith is not dependent on our own strength or cleverness. We need the guidance and empowerment of the Holy Spirit to help us respond with wisdom, compassion, and courage.

Conclusion

As followers of Christ, we have been called to be salt and light in a world that is increasingly divided and bitter. This means that we must be willing to take a stand for what is right, but to do so in a way that reflects the love, humility, and grace of our Savior.

It's not easy, and there will be times when we're tempted to give in to our own sense of outrage. But if we can resist that trap and choose instead to engage with wisdom, empathy, and a commitment to unity, we just might find that we're able to make a lasting difference in the lives of those around us. So let's embrace this better way, and let's do it together, as a community of believers who are determined to honor God and love our neighbors, no matter the cost.


Sermon: Unoffendable - Don't Take the Bait – Rusty George

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Jack Ward

President, Rugged Faith Ministries

4 个月

Good article, thanks for sharing

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