Choose a beautiful woman, you have to accept expenses too…

First, is society … Society tells beautiful women how lovely they are, a truly beautiful woman is told her whole life how pretty she is and most of the time, that's all they are.

Pretty. Because why do they need good grades/job they're gorgeous who wouldn't marry/hire them, etc. It fosters a sense of entitlement.

New people walk into your lives all the time. Sometimes, the best ones come when we least expect it. Maybe it turns out to be your college roommate you got randomly paired with or your new co-worker.

Does it seem like you’ve known your bestie for years even though you just met??

When they do get in a relationship, after the ‘'new’ wears off, they're usually really annoying because they think you should be grateful they're deigning to slum it with you, how dare you deny them anything, etc.

This also applies to overly handsome men.

The second … closely related to that, is personality. Or lack thereof. It's not that a gorgeous woman can't have a good personality, it's that because of such a hyper awareness on looks, it's unlikely for them to develop one.

Much less one that's going to match a man who's worked hard on his career and is financially set- physical attractiveness would be a plus but what he wants in a wife is a woman whose family oriented, supportive, maybe with her own career or goals, not a pretty bimbo who'll drain him dry on manicure and pedicure and run off with the neighbor because he wasn't around her every single second paying attention to her and basking in her beauty.

All the men I have ever known choose women that they like. Many of them happen to like average looking women.

And the women—even the beautiful ones—are not looking for men who are handsome or have money. They are looking for men they like.

As best I can tell from talking to women, really beautiful women have a harder time getting dates than average looking women.

Maybe human attraction doesn’t actually work the way you think it does.

It might, for instance, be primarily based on a person’s emotional response to another, rather than on possession of items on a checklist of theoretically desirable attributes.

I’ll tell you a secret about those average men. They ain’t average. Not even close.

Women, beautiful or not, end up with men that provide them with something they need from a relationship. Men end up with them because those women made themselves accessible and approachable at the right time.

That top shelf model that’s with that average guy… look closely. Look at the way she looks at him. Look at the way she touches him. Look at the way they’re in sync with one another. They treat each other like gold.

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Thank you ….Take note: The reason you’re not with someone like that is because you look at them and just see “some smoking hot chick” with “some average guy.”

If you learn to become someone worthy of the kind of woman you’re looking for, you’ll find she’ll show up out of nowhere.

Gym rat with model good looks, flashy clothes and accessories and an expensive car but nothing else going for him isn’t what most women are looking for. Neither is super nice guy that treats her like a Queen, but has nothing else that excites her.

If you want that top shelf model, you’ve gotta find out what interests her, you’ve gotta find out what excites her and you have to demonstrate those aspects of your personality and shine in a way that gets you noticed.

She needs to say to herself “Hey, this guy has something going on, I’m into that. He’s not bad looking, I wouldn’t be grossed out by kissing him. He treats people kindly. He’s interesting and funny, he makes me laugh.

We have a couple of things in common. He has a decent career. He’s got a bit of swagger, confident enough to be himself without worrying what people think of him. He doesn’t have too much of an ego. He has sex appeal. I’m gonna give him a shot.”

If she looks at you and doesn’t see all that, she’s not your girl. The right one will see you for who you are and you will be enough.

That guy she’s with? He’s got more going on than you give him credit for. You may not see it, but she does and that’s why she’s with him. So give him the respect he’s due.

Men equally don’t prefer to date average women. Men tend to date women they’re attracted to.

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The difference between the top shelf models and those less genetically fortunate are that during their lives they’ve had to learn to date from complete opposite ends of the rule book. While one end has had to learn to hustle to attract the attention they want, the other has had to learn to shun the attention they don’t want.

Unfortunately that means that many pretty girls have learned to be intimidating and cold as a means of warding off insincere attention. This means they often don’t attract as many guys as you think they do.

The less genetically fortunate have learned to be warm and kind, to make themselves approachable and accessible, they’ve learned to flirt. This attracts guys like a magnet.

The fun thing is though that very few people are average. We’ve all got people out there who will adore us just the way we are. Probably thousands of them just waiting to stumble across one another and discover whatever it is we’re looking for.

The looks of her man are less sexually arousing to her than her own looks. This is especially true of beautiful women. Put a mirror next to your bed, and when you fuck a beautiful woman you will find that she is looking at herself in the mirror.

The man who most turns women on is just the man who can most make women feel beautiful. That man, whoever he is, is the one women will find most sexually attractive. A man who is himself beautiful may not be that man. Indeed, it is common that the beautiful man merely makes a woman feel insecure and therefore less than beautiful herself.

Additionally, the ugly man, having likely experienced rejection in life, has perhaps developed a capacity for empathy which the nice-looking man lacks. This can allow him to better anticipate his woman’s needs and to be a better all-around lover. He knows how to make her feel secure, understood, appreciated, supported.

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Perhaps most importantly, the ugly man might be a highly successful man, a leader in society, a person of considerable power and talent in one domain or another.

If the woman in question occupies (or otherwise relates to) the domain of his power, he will automatically have a certain appeal to her. He will be seen as an authority, and his choice of her will be experienced as a great compliment.

His desire for her will make her feel beautiful. In spite of his lack of beauty, she will be sexually attracted to him.

Let’s think about sex for a moment.

Imagine there is a world where you can enter two lives.

In one life, you have a beautiful woman, without what you would consider to be intelligent.

In the other life, you have the intellect, but she is not what you consider physically perfect.

You love having sex with the beautiful woman.

Weeks go by.

Months go by.

Maybe you start to see what you thought was beautiful as a little chipped. You realize this is a human, who poops just like you.

Who has her own set of habits?

Your beautiful wife has trouble parenting, keeping up with things, and managing daily stress

Sex life plummets because stuff around you is generally plummeting.

Now let’s check in on your intellectual wife.

She is still cute. She is not everything you ever desired.

You still have regular sex.

She helps solve your problems because she is highly intelligent. Maybe she is smarter than you.

She learns things to please you in bed. As an appreciative husband, I would hope you’d do the same.

She understands the daily routine and maintenance of your lives.

Of both of your lives.

She becomes the mother of your children.

She understands the burden of two people raising little animals.

You and she manage the game of being parents.

You appreciate the intellectual component in degrees way higher 10 years down the line now.

That appreciation?

Probably turns to a reason to keep having regular sex.

Which leads you to live a life of actual long-term happiness.

Which helps you understand why you truly love this person.

Sometimes we really need to think ahead a bit to see where things could severely go wrong.

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