Chinese Tranaltion of Golden Words from English Novel Fuck Love by Tarryn Fisher
We think we can control our lives, but our lives control us. And everything that touches our lives controls us. People have less power than they think they do. It’s just the reactions we control.（ Page 31 ,Fuck Love ?by Tarryn Fisher）
一直以来我们都以为我们能掌控自己的生活，现实情况恰恰相反，我们被生活所掌控，我们为生活的方方面面所掌控，人类其实并不像他们自己以为的那样能够掌控自己的生活决定自己的命运。 我们能掌控的其实仅仅是在危机到来时对自己身体下意识的反应。
We think we can control our lives, but our lives control us. And everything that touches our lives controls us. People have less power than they think they do. It’s just the reactions we control.（ Page 31 ,Fuck Love）
一直以来我们都以为我们能掌控自己的生活，现实情况恰恰相反，我们被生活所掌控，我们为生活的方方面面所掌控，人类其实并不像他们自己以为的那样能够掌控自己的生活决定自己的命运。我们能掌控的其实仅仅是在危机到来时对自己身体下意识的反应。
The people who blind themselves to the truth. They’re just trying to survive（page 54）
人们之所以故意对真相视而不见，那是因为他们其实知道，真相与否对他们其实并没有活下去重要，他们简单地只想活下去。
Contrast is important in life. We understand what light is because we can compare it with what we know is dark. Sweet is made sweeter after we eat something bitter. It’s the very same with sadness. And it’s important to experience sadness, to embrace it in order to truly know happiness.(Ditto)
生活中作对比很重要。比如说只有在将其和黑暗进行对比后我们才会明白什么是光明，只有吃到苦的东西才会明白平时不怎么的甜的东西是如此之甜。同样道理：只有经历了悲伤并欣然接受其为人生常态，我们才会真正明白什么是幸福。(page 56)
We are only given one life. You want to waste it waging war against yourself, go right ahead. Or you can fight for what you want. What are you scared of?(page 56) 我们这辈子就一条命，如果你想通过让自己不痛快来浪费甚至糟蹋这有限的生命，那你就糟蹋吧！要不，就为自己想要的生活而战吧！你究竟在担心和害怕什么呢？
I’m scared of what they’ll really think of me.
我很在意别人心里怎么看我！
Let people feel the weight of who you really are, and let them fucking deal with it. You can’t run away to find yourself. Yourself is there no matter where you go. The difference is, if you’re running, you’ll be too busy to pick up the sword and face your enemies. Sometimes your enemy will be you; sometimes it will be those with the power to hurt you. Take off your shoes and stop running. Live barefoot and fucking fight.
别在意别人怎么看你，你应该做的应该是让他们知道你有多强大，强大到让他们猝不及防难以应付！选择逃避永远都解决不了问题，因为你无论怎么逃避，最终你还得自己去面对和解决你自身存在的这些问题！主动面对并解决问题和回避这些问题的存在，这两者的区别在于：如果现在选择逃避，将来你会手忙脚乱到无暇举起武器面对你的敌人，因为你一生要面对的敌人有时候是你自己，有时候是那些有能力伤害到你的人。别逃避了，扔下包袱，为自己想要的生活破釜沉舟背水一战吧！