Child Welfare that hurts?
Haakon Rian Mancient Ueland
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In Norway, 8.488 children are under governmental care. Every day, in a tiny country with 5.5M inhabitants, three children are taken into emergency care, a deeply traumatising process that often involves uniformed police, with the stigmatisation this entails.
Consider this... what if our process, where the might of the system is used to separate children and their parents, hurts more than it helps?
"Barnevernet", as the Child Welfare System in Norway is called, has a troubling history. It has been used to separate indigenous children from their parents, robbing them of their culture and language. People with religion have had their children taken, and their children brought up in families of different faiths. Or no faith whatsoever.
On the basis of ridiculous assumptions, such as "it is dangerous for children to eat with their hands" (my friends from the African continent may find this amusing), parents have lost custody. One example of this was described in the movie Mrs. Chatterjee vs. Norway, and I have seen it myself in case documents.
Think back to your childhood. Was there anything you were more scared of than your parents disappearing?
In Norway, and also in Sweden, this is done by the system. State-sanctioned child abuse?
We all know that there are parents who aren't fit to give their children a good life. But most parent will, with guidance and compassion, be able to take care of their children's needs.
Norway has been condemned in the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg almost 40 times. In courtrooms, it is argued against parents that it is better for children to grow up under the care of child welfare. This suggests that the care provided by the state is not sufficient to enable parents to be good caregivers.
American research shows that children have better outcomes when they remain with their families compared to those who are taken into care. For children under the care of child welfare, the outcomes are bleak; low participation in the job market, substance abuse, and mental health problems. A high proportion of them end up disabled. Considering the costs associated with care takeovers, it is economically sensible and morally right to invest in reunification. Maintaining care outside the home costs eight times more than in the home.
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What can we do?
For those who want to read more.
https://www.forskning.no/ntb-psykiske-lidelser-studenter/en-av-tre-studenter-kan-ha-en-psykisk-lidelse/2253339 (50% of Norwegian students qualify for a psychiatric illness in the last year)
https://fontene.no/debatt/er-staten-norge-en-god-mor-6.47.860587.397b93d22f (An article I wrote where system crashed with system)
https://www.forskning.no/finans/en-av-fem-med-gjeldsproblemer-har-forsokt-a-ta-sitt-eget-liv-ifolge-svensk-studie/2215351 (A Swedish study showed that 20 % of people with financial difficulties had tried to end their own life)
https://ourworldindata.org/suicide (General information about suicide)
https://www.nhri.no/arsmelding/arsmelding2023/menneskerettigheter-i-hoyesterett-emd-og-fn/#emd-og-norge-–-en-historisk- (ECHR cases in Norway)
This is great info! Professionals in the child welfare industry need to understand cultural differences in parental approach. The ultimate outcome is to create a safer, happier world for children, so we must observe and analyze the impact of our current policies and procedures! #childwelfare #culturaldiversity
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12 个月H?kon Rian Mancient Ueland - thank you for the insightful articles. I commend you on all your efforts to make the world a better place. Bravo ?? ?? ?? ??
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1 年I was shocked when i watched that film abt Mrs Chatterjee. I never knew that Norway has that "kind of child welfare". I agree with you that a child to be separated from parents creates more harm than good unless there exists cruelty and other crimes committed to their own child. In Asian countries, some people also eat with bare hands especially those in the provinces, in far-flung areas and sometimes during picnic. That is called "culture". Norway has its own culture and seeing the culture of immigrants/other people shocks them and they deem it unacceptable..but as each nation has its own culture, traditions and beliefs that has to be respected and they should not impose their own to these people. That truly hurts not only to the parents but you can just imagine the awful psychological impact it has on the child/children.
A very thought-provoking and informative article share! H?kon Rian Mancient Ueland
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