Checking on Seniors from a Distance

Your parents are home alone. Due to social distancing protocols or a stay-at-home order, you can’t visit them.

The typical Sunday night phone call you’re used to having doesn’t feel like it’s enough anymore to make sure they’re doing okay.

You may be concerned about the coronavirus pandemic—but you’re probably also worried about their existing health conditions, their ability to keep up with their household responsibilities, and their mental health and general sense of well-being. And while you may be able to get a feel for some of those emotions on the phone, you might wonder if you’re missing something between calls.

Distance Deliveries

One way to check in on your parents (or senior loved one) is to help them with groceries or other deliveries. Dropping off food, prescriptions, or other necessities can be an opportunity to check in from the driveway, porch, or building entrance. Look for signs of significant change in physical appearance, home maintenance, or general cleanliness.

Create a Schedule

If you’re used to checking in whenever you think of it or when they call you, it might be time to create a schedule. No news may be good news during normal times, but that’s not necessarily true during a global health crisis. Planning regular phone calls or drive-by visits can help you feel confident that you’re staying in touch and not missing any changes. 

Enlist the Neighbors

If your parent lives in a house, apartment, or other independent living community, make sure you can get in touch with their neighbors—and that they can get in touch with you. Get phone numbers for a few people in the area. The coronavirus pandemic has shown that people care about other people, and that includes looking out for someone in their community who might be particularly vulnerable right now.

How often are you checking in on your loved ones?