The Chaos Has a Limit
Dr. Jimmie Flores
Ph.D, D.M., MBA, M.A., M.S., M.Ed., Co-Active Coach, CSM?, CSPO?, CSP?, A-CSM?, A-CSPO?, CAL-I?, PMP?, PMI-RMP?, PMI-SP?, PMI-ACP?, PMI-PBA?, CAPM?, PfMP?, SSBB, SPHR?, GPHR?, SHRM-SCP?, PRINCE2, ITIL? Expert, COBIT 5
Over the years, I’ve heard many people, especially business leaders, state that many of the decisions they make are based on a “gut-feeling.” In other words, the decisions they render are emotionally driven.
?It makes sense that decisions are impacted by strong feelings, especially when we are confronted with a difficult situation.
?However, without a solid plan and appropriate guidance, impromptu decision-making will quickly spiral into chaos, and there is a limit to how much disorder our businesses and lives can handle.
?Avoid Solo Decision-Making
Some of my worst decisions happened when I relied solely on my own knowledge and experience. This problem was even more evident when I was younger, as my knowledge and experience was significantly less.
?Even when making personal decisions, seek the advice of a friend, family member, colleague, or spiritual advisor. Today, I am fortunate to participate in a couple of men’s bible study programs, which allow me the opportunity to engage with other men facing the same issues. As our bonds have strengthened through active engagement in these ministries, I feel confident seeking guidance from these men.
?A notable problem with making decisions on our own is that our perspective is narrowed to just one lens. While our viewpoint is critically important, we must realize it is inherently biased.
?Most people want to avoid a counter-angle because they have already decided what they are going to do. However, when we ignore constructive feedback, we increase the chances of overlooking potential flaws in our thinking.
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?Seeking Guidance
When observing leaders, regardless of the industry where they work, I’ve noticed that the best ones often lead with humility. In other words, these women and men have an innate ability to relate to others.?
?Here are ways they seek help from others:
?As you can tell by these examples, humility is the driver. Just as important, we must practice excellent listening skills.
?Homework Inquiry
?During the next week, here’s your homework inquiry: How will you lead with humility?